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it's over

post #1 of 33
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I'm miscarrying. Our little miracle baby, that took 3 1/2 years to conceive, is gone. We saw the h/b at my first appt. on Monday. Told my almost-5-year-old the great news. 10 minutes later I got a gush of blood. I lost a lot of blood and tissue/clots that night. U/s the next morning showed the baby still had a strong heartbeat. Bleeding stopped for a day, then started again. U/S this morning showed no heartbeat. I'm going in tomorrow morning for a follow-up. Don't really know why.

We have family coming in this weekend to celebrate ds's birthday. The timing is lousy and I just hate that I'll be sitting there waiting for imminent massive bleeding to start. My doctor is willing to do a d&c tomorrow, but I don't know if I want that, either.
post #2 of 33
So, so sorry. Please take care of yourself.
post #3 of 33
I am so sorry
post #4 of 33
Sending you healing thoughts.
post #5 of 33
So sorry, sending healing vibes for body and spirit and family.
post #6 of 33
so very sorry for your loss
post #7 of 33
I am so very sorry for your loss
post #8 of 33
so so unfair. i'm very sorry.
post #9 of 33
so sorry mama!
post #10 of 33
I'm so sorry. Let yourself grieve and consider canceling the weekend plans for another time. Everyone will understand.
post #11 of 33
I'm so so very sorry.
post #12 of 33
I am so sorry.
post #13 of 33
I'm so sorry. I hope your family can support you. FWIW, I have never m/c'd at home, but it sounds like it can be brutal. At least with a D&C you can ask for some ambien/vicodin to take the edge off for a couple of days so you aren't so sad. My first m/c I was so sad and traumatized I didn't know how I was going to get through a family wedding and the OB took pity on me.
post #14 of 33
I'm so sorry for your loss. :
post #15 of 33
so sorry you are having to go through that.
post #16 of 33
Trini, I am so sorry for your loss.
post #17 of 33
I'm so sorry Trini. I can't even imagine how you're feeling right now. Sending healing thoughts your way.
post #18 of 33
Oh no, I am so sorry, how very painful You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
post #19 of 33
I'm so sorry Mama....be gentle with yourself.
post #20 of 33
I'm very sorry for your loss.
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