Gavin is my third boy. He's 9.5 months. Unfortunately, I have yet to have a "normal" child, so I don't know what's normal! My first was ridiculously early with all milestones, and my second is special needs, so was delayed in many.
Gavin doesn't crawl. Even my special needs son was crawling by this age. I know, people say crawling isn't an important milestone, our ped says don't worry until a year, I hear stories all the time of perfectly "normal" kids who never crawl. But where is the research? Because I also hear stories of how crawling may be more important to development than once thought, may increase visual-spatial skills, may effect fine motor skills, etc.
Now, when I say he doesn't crawl, I don't mean that he's just a blob. He does *move*. Right now he's on the floor tearing up an old magazine, and he's been moving all over the floor. He sort of does a butt-scoot, or he'll lean forward onto his arms and drag his legs behind him (still in a seated position). He does all movement from a seated position.
He hates his tummy, but I think maybe that's because he's a tummy-sleeper, so he associates that with bed time. He did recently figure out how to get from his tummy to a sitting position (he pushes into a crawling position, then brings his legs forward until he's sitting up). He's not a big roller, he can roll, but he almost never does.
He can bear weight on his legs, but he does not stand (independently or while holding on to something) If I hold his hands, he can stand, but if I transfer his hands to something (the side of the couch, for example) he gets a little panicky. Definitely not ready to pull up yet.
He is not hypotonic, his upper and lower body strength seems normal. His trunk strength seems normal. He does have a very large head, the ped actually is having us come back at 10 months just for a head check because his head jumped a few percentage lines between 6 and 9 months. He is otherwise developmentally normal, babbling, signing, smiling, interacting, progressing with solids, etc.
SO...help reassure me! Is he just not going to do a traditional crawl? Is movement more important than the type of movement? Is lack of crawling really not a big deal? I want to see the research.
Gavin doesn't crawl. Even my special needs son was crawling by this age. I know, people say crawling isn't an important milestone, our ped says don't worry until a year, I hear stories all the time of perfectly "normal" kids who never crawl. But where is the research? Because I also hear stories of how crawling may be more important to development than once thought, may increase visual-spatial skills, may effect fine motor skills, etc.
Now, when I say he doesn't crawl, I don't mean that he's just a blob. He does *move*. Right now he's on the floor tearing up an old magazine, and he's been moving all over the floor. He sort of does a butt-scoot, or he'll lean forward onto his arms and drag his legs behind him (still in a seated position). He does all movement from a seated position.
He hates his tummy, but I think maybe that's because he's a tummy-sleeper, so he associates that with bed time. He did recently figure out how to get from his tummy to a sitting position (he pushes into a crawling position, then brings his legs forward until he's sitting up). He's not a big roller, he can roll, but he almost never does.
He can bear weight on his legs, but he does not stand (independently or while holding on to something) If I hold his hands, he can stand, but if I transfer his hands to something (the side of the couch, for example) he gets a little panicky. Definitely not ready to pull up yet.
He is not hypotonic, his upper and lower body strength seems normal. His trunk strength seems normal. He does have a very large head, the ped actually is having us come back at 10 months just for a head check because his head jumped a few percentage lines between 6 and 9 months. He is otherwise developmentally normal, babbling, signing, smiling, interacting, progressing with solids, etc.
SO...help reassure me! Is he just not going to do a traditional crawl? Is movement more important than the type of movement? Is lack of crawling really not a big deal? I want to see the research.







i am a non-crawler. i walked when i was 7.5 months crawled when i was 2.5. both of my children walk before crawling. for the life of me i cant remember when they walked i need to go find that out. 



But between 6 and 9 months I paid careful attention and made sure to get him reaching with his left. He can pass a toy from hand to hand, so that's good.

