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Something about nursing making her cry, but not bottles of expressed milk?

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DD3 is 9 weeks today. Our breastfeeding history thus far has been: Latched on and nursed well from the beginning. She was a lazy nurser, but very chill baby in general. I has massive supply and letdown which bugged her, so I block fed for a few weeks and that remedied that. I've also eliminated all potential allergens. She has always, only nursed in 5-10min spurts, because she gets so much so fast. She rarely just settles in and nurses till she sleeps. She nurses and eventually gets agitated and that's it. But she has always seemed full. She is gaining weight very well and was in the 99.8% for height and 95% for weight at last visit.

About 5 days ago she started with the crying spells. 2 to 3 hour spurts throughout the day, all day long. She seems uncomfortable. She doesn't want to comfort nurse...she just does that pecking face slamming on my breast thing. I can get her to latch and she'll gulp for a min or two, then get agitated and start crying/pecking again. In the last 2-3 days I've had some appts that have been very long and I've brought her and DH w/pumped bottle. We introduced bottles of pumped milk at 3 wks and she took it like a champ and has about 1-2 bottles/day of pumped milk, the rest she direct. So over the last few days that she has been so upset, the ONLY times she calms all day is the time period after DH gives her the bottle. I nurse her until she quits, go to appt, she ends up hungry immediately, kills a 4-5oz bottle, and is so content.
What is it about nursing at the breast vs a bottle of pumped milk that has her so pissed off??? Today I nursed her all day, she was upset all day, finally I warmed 3oz, gave it to her, she ate it up and is sleeping. Her latch looks just like it should (says LC). I do notice she nurses loudly...gulping, sounds like sucking air, a sort of click noise. But her latch is right, just a very lightly weak. Supply is good. I just dunno?? She sleeps well at night, no thrush, nothing else I can think of.

Any ideas?? I feel like she is happier w/ the bottle.My other two nursed until 2.5yo and 4yo w/ no issues. I'm a bit lost and the screaming all day is getting tough.
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I have read on these boards that clicking and tongue tie can be related. But it seems like you would know about that by 9 weeks. Could your forceful letdown have come back a bit??

I hope you get it figured out.
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ear infectin or a sore neck? could be the difference in position.
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we experienced a similar problem. what worked for us was to give dd a few droppers full of expressed milk or else try with a cup, and then nurse.
we figured what was happening was that she was hungry before she realized it enough to signal and when i was trying to feed her she was MAD and didn't want to wait for letdown. bottles don't require a wait for letdown
dd also would get too angry about the whole thing to latch very well after the fact. giving her the little bit of milk at first calmed her down, relieved a little of the hunger, and let her know there would be more milk coming soon.

you could also try to get the letdown first before trying to latch, but i never tried that due to the crazy angry screaming and flailing that was not conducive to any kind of delay...
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we experienced a similar problem. what worked for us was to give dd a few droppers full of expressed milk or else try with a cup, and then nurse.
we figured what was happening was that she was hungry before she realized it enough to signal and when i was trying to feed her she was MAD and didn't want to wait for letdown. bottles don't require a wait for letdown
dd also would get too angry about the whole thing to latch very well after the fact. giving her the little bit of milk at first calmed her down, relieved a little of the hunger, and let her know there would be more milk coming soon.

you could also try to get the letdown first before trying to latch, but i never tried that due to the crazy angry screaming and flailing that was not conducive to any kind of delay...

we had similar issues with dd. she was a lazy nurser and when she wasn't willing to work for let down. if she had gotten hungry & after repeated attempts she still wasn't able to nurse, we would give her an ounce or so to take the edge off and then she would usually nurse. eventually (around 3mo) when she had gotten better at the mechanics of nursing we didn't have to do any pre-feeding.
i had issues with low supply at first, worked hard and got my supply up and then had over supply issues. when i finally corrected my over supply issues, i noticed dd was an impatient nurser for a while again. she (like a typical lazy nurser) liked the faster flow and didn't want to work to get the milk. for us, it was tough to strike a good balance between allowing her the opportunity to practice/work at learning to nurse well and needing to give her a bit from the bottle to get her started.
i'm glad your babe has gained so well. because of our nursing issues, dd wasn't gaining weight rapidly enough (for the ped) and we went through all sorts of craziness (48 hours of exclusive pumping and bottle feeding to see how much i was producing , supplementing with formula and many, many tears) whew, i'm so glad we made it and those days are behind us!

not sure if your babe is fussing at the breast for the same reasons my dd was, but i hope you get things resolved soon.
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