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First-time mom, wanting unassisted childbirth!

post #1 of 11
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Hey!

I have joined here in hopes that I can find some support and advice in planning an unassisted homebirth!

I was planning to have my little boy at a birth center, but was informed that they will more than likely send me to the hospital.

The reason is that I am technically in the obese range.

I am perfectly healthy in every other way, except for the fact that I have too much poundage. I started out at 225 pounds, lost 15 and have stayed at 210 so far. My diet is very balanced.

I will not have my baby in a hospital and I am attempting to do all I can not to develop gestational diabetes and preeclampsia.

I always wanted to have an unassisted homebirth, but now I'm thinking I will actually do it.

I started studying childbirth at the age of 17. I am now 22 and know all the risks involved, and feel that this is the best choice for me.

I am also doing the hypnobabies home study course (Just started at 22 weeks, 23 weeks now)

I am married to a great man, and he will naturally be present. What I'm thinking is to stay with the birth center for all the check-ups etc. and secretly prepare to do everything at home and then just not inform them of the birth until afterwards. Sneaky, yes. But it's the best idea I can come up with.

Finding a midwife to attend sounds too tricky and too expensive.
So, like I said, any and all information regarding other unassisted births and also, ways that worked for others in preventing GD and preeclampsia, I want all the help I can get!

Thanks!!!
post #2 of 11
Hello and Welcome to MDC!!!
post #3 of 11
Hello and welcome to MDC!

There is some kind of subforum on UC you might want to check out. Before you give up on the midwife just for financial reasons: does healthcare provider cover midwifery care? (Ours did, in MI 2000 and 2003.)
post #4 of 11
Hey mama! Welcome to MDC! The UC sub forum is a wonderful place to get support and help you prepare for your UC - it helped me enormously. I hope you stick around on MDC!
post #5 of 11
Welcome to MDC!
post #6 of 11
Hello and welcome!
post #7 of 11
And like others said check out the UC forum
post #8 of 11
I am really intersested in hypnobabies! Keep us up to date!
post #9 of 11
Welcome to MDC!
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I find UC fascinating! They had a discovery health special on them, and I think what a wonderfull way for women to take back their birthing experiences! I wish you the very best of luck!
post #11 of 11
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