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My boss, the 10 month old.

post #1 of 19
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I tried to put my son in his jumperoo- to which he very quickly responded with, "No Mama. Mama up!"

I picked him up. A few minutes later (and because the dishes really DO need not to be in my sink!) I set him down in front of some toys in the living room. He played a minute, I found half the sink, and suddenly from the next room... "Mama! UP!"

I picked him up. Wanting to finish a couple more dishes, I popped him on my hip in a sling. Suddenly, my shirt was pulled up and I heard, "Mama nur." (he's recently picked this one up, he can't get all the way through nurse, but is consistent with 'nur'.) I set him down and handed him a few bites of melon in hopes of getting the last few plates in the dishwasher. He persisted, and I asked if he wanted to nurse. He crawled off to the living room, sounding much like some strange machine, "Nur nur nur mama mama nur nur nur."

He finished nursing, and I headed to the pack and play in the kitchen to get him tucked in for a nap. As we walked past the kitchen sink, he pointed at the few straggling dishes and pointed at them with a big grin exclaiming with great surprise... "Mama ish!" I set him down in his bed, and he stood up again, pointing at the sink, this time, he found the 'd', "Dish mama dish!" The pointed finger turned, and he directed it at himself, quickly uttering "Nie Nie!" (Nie nie = night night) and settled himself down to sleep.

I sat down for a moment at my desk nearby to check email, and from a couple feet away, the plaintive sleepy voice sighed, "Mama.... dish."


I am glad he is discovering the power of words, but I was unaware that my child would be in charge of the daily schedule before he was one.
post #2 of 19
at 10 months?? wow. you've got a precocious one there, yes?

my little guy isn't 8 months yet, but i just cannot imagine that in only 2 months and change he could start directing my schedule.

must have been mind-blowing for you. i'd have been on the phone with DH, mom, dad...

the part of him whining "dish" as he went off to sleep is too cute.
post #3 of 19
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He is very advanced in terms of verbal development, and is generally just a pretty neat little guy. Several weeks ago he surpassed his older brother's (age 2) expressive language skills, so it can be pretty interesting around here. The older brother doesn't speak, never babbled etc, and my youngest will not stop. Overall- I plan to hide as they seem to be taking over my house.
post #4 of 19
good luck with that!

it's cool that your babies are so different from each other. this dude of mine will be an "only" (he has 2 teenage step brothers, and 3's enough!), so i won't get to do that experiment, but it's just cool. is one more like you and the other more like your partner?
post #5 of 19
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I think that the younger one is more like I was as a baby- from what my mom tells me anyway- demanding/pushy/very high needs (mom loved me lots but took a part time job so she could get away at times.) His brother is (according to that side of the family) more like his dad- who was pretty laid back as a kid.

With as close as they are in age, and the differences in development, we're shifting to a place where it is more like a set of fraternal twins than siblings with an age gap. It's a really amazing journey!
post #6 of 19
This is so amazing! My guy is almost 10 months and has absolutely no real words to speak of. Just endless babbles. . .he can now mimic some of our sounds, but he doesn't use them with intention/meaning yet.

Its so cool that your guy can express himself. . .but then again, I'm not sure I'm ready for a "director" like you have!
post #7 of 19
That sounds like my oldest at that age. His favorite phrase was, "Mama! Mama! Wat dat?" I'd spend hours with him pointing at things asking me "Wat dat?" and me giving him the names of everything he could see.
post #8 of 19
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It's fun. I spent the afternoon at speech therapy with his older brother trying to get even babbles, so I celebrate even the demanding personality expressed in words.
post #9 of 19
LOL! So cute, and I'm bracing myself for this. DS doesn't speak yet and probably wont for a while but he is oh so good at controlling my day. If he doesn't get what he wants he persists. It can only get better right? right?
post #10 of 19
WOW! My DS is nowhere near this in speech-development. He might say mama sometimes and mean it, but most of the time it's mamamamama, which he does to my mother (who looks and sounds Just Like Me) just as often. And occasionally to DP. I don't consider it really a "word" yet.

He does, however, have his screeches. OMG, screeches. We have a gate - built in, no getting this sucker down - separating the dining/kitchen. And when I'm doing dishes, he just pulls on those bars and screeches. It's not painful and it's not truly upset, it's just as high-pitched, loud, as possible. Normally he is OK with the one gate (it's the only in the house), but man, when the dishes are out... he wants part of it :-)

oh, thanks for sharing the... What to Come :-)
post #11 of 19
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K is, and always has been, a very high needs baby. He insists on creating the environment he wants, and if it doesn't happen, he will complain/fuss/sleep even worse than his usual 5-6 hours a day- total.

I accepted my role as minion a few months ago.
post #12 of 19
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Originally Posted by confustication View Post
K is, and always has been, a very high needs baby. He insists on creating the environment he wants, and if it doesn't happen, he will complain/fuss/sleep even worse than his usual 5-6 hours a day- total.

I accepted my role as minion a few months ago.
He only sleeps 5-6 hours in a 24 hour period? You poor mama!
post #13 of 19
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He only sleeps 5-6 hours in a 24 hour period? You poor mama!
Every few days he'll have a day where he catches up- but he is a super-resistant sleeper, and if he does nap- it's 30 mins or less most days. Thankfully, my husband and I are really good at making sure we both take care of ourselves.

I'm hoping that once the most recent skills-explosion is over he will settle back to a more normal schedule. He's mastered sitting/crawling/babbling/talking/pulling to stand/cruising/and now independent standing all in the course of about a month.
post #14 of 19
Wow, my 2yo is just barely saying things like that My 2nd child was SO quiet until he was 18 months - then he started talking in full sentences. It was so crazy to see this teeny tiny person having a full conversation like a 3 year old literally a week after he said his first word. There is such a wide range of development even within my children. Your little guy sounds adorable
post #15 of 19
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It is really amazing- our 2 y/o's speech therapist wonders if he'll just come ot with full sentences at some point instead of doing gradual language aquisition as he tends to be an observer- he'll watch until he knows he can do something just right.

The youngest? I'm pretty sure he's going to be the sort to leap before he looks with everything. It's absolutely amazing to me how different they are.
post #16 of 19
I am amazed that a 10 month old is saying Mama up already. But my ds was not a fan of being on the floor either (he just wasn't verbal at that age). I used to let him stand on a stepstool in the kitchen when he was able to. I also remember just letting dh do a lot of the stuff around the house,
post #17 of 19
i don't know which part is more amazing.....the vocabulary or the fact that your babe can settle himself and fall asleep for a nap in the middle of the kitchen!!!!

you've got a keeper!
post #18 of 19
I might be more impressed that your 10 mo old sleeps in the pack and play than anything... Our pack n play is really just a toy-filled prison so I can pee w/o DD eating trash or sticking her tongue in a lightsocket.

DD is 10 mos and says MAMA and DADA - mama means boob and dada means cell phone. HEr daddy was THRILLED when she said DADA and heartbroken when she grabbed his blackberry, hugged it and said DADADADADA. I, of course, thought it was hysterical.
post #19 of 19
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Originally Posted by TnMsMama View Post
DD is 10 mos and says MAMA and DADA - mama means boob and dada means cell phone. HEr daddy was THRILLED when she said DADA and heartbroken when she grabbed his blackberry, hugged it and said DADADADADA. I, of course, thought it was hysterical.
I point to Dada when he comes walking home, and DD picked that up pretty fast. On the other hand, after months of pointing to myself and saying "Mama", DD now thinks my ribcage is her mother.
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