I haven't called to make the 1st appt yet. I did just go in about 2 months ago and had some blood drawn b/c of headaches, i met with one of the midwifes there and she was nice, but i don't know if i got the right vibes from her, so i am not sure if i am her 'patient' or not or if i can see anyone under that obgyn that has the midwifes under her but i will find out on monday when i call, i would really like to try out another midwife in the practice. Dh is all 'i can't believe you want to do the hospital thing i thought you wanted homebirth, but cost wise it will be less if i go the traditional route so that is what i am thinking at this point'.
with ds we went in about 10 weeks and got a u/s and then had the next appt and got to hear the heartbeat, so i am thinking sometime midsept would be good. I know my cousin misscarried at around 7 weeks and they heard the heartbeat, but they may not check for it that early at routine visits.