I have a birth defect issue in my back, and my sister believes she has it. I found it on x-rays when I had back pain when I was in my 20s. I have about 3-4 vertebrae fused to my pelvic bone, so it's one piece on my left side. I also have some extra ones, but that's not a big deal I was told. When I told my OB during my first pregnancy, she gave me a rather annoyed look and said something like "that won't matter, your front pelvic bones would crack to allow room"
So flash forward to the birth, I was induced and had terrible back labor, I felt like someone was pounding an ice pick into my hip on my left side, no relief or waves, just constant pain. The epidural didn't work on that area at all. I told the nurse who freaked out basically that no one told her about this issue, and I heard her tell the OB and the OB told her basically to shut up and blew her off. Baby had descended to the point OB could use a vacuum attempt, but I needed a c-section. The next day the OB said to me I would always need a c-section because my babies would be too big for me (dd was 8 pounds) but if I had a normal 6 pound baby, it would be okay.
I always believed my section was unnecessary, brought on by being induced, but now, I guess fear has set in and I am worried if this will cause issue again. Should I tell my midwife and risk maybe she will agree with my old OB or not mention it all and take a risk it might be another painful birth and emergency c-section because my pelvic area can't expand? I felt the whole time I needed to move my leg around something, but of course had to remain in stirrups
I'll add my sister believes she has the same issue, and she had a c-section, then with her second had a UR. She complained of the same "ice pick" pain.
So flash forward to the birth, I was induced and had terrible back labor, I felt like someone was pounding an ice pick into my hip on my left side, no relief or waves, just constant pain. The epidural didn't work on that area at all. I told the nurse who freaked out basically that no one told her about this issue, and I heard her tell the OB and the OB told her basically to shut up and blew her off. Baby had descended to the point OB could use a vacuum attempt, but I needed a c-section. The next day the OB said to me I would always need a c-section because my babies would be too big for me (dd was 8 pounds) but if I had a normal 6 pound baby, it would be okay.
I always believed my section was unnecessary, brought on by being induced, but now, I guess fear has set in and I am worried if this will cause issue again. Should I tell my midwife and risk maybe she will agree with my old OB or not mention it all and take a risk it might be another painful birth and emergency c-section because my pelvic area can't expand? I felt the whole time I needed to move my leg around something, but of course had to remain in stirrups
I'll add my sister believes she has the same issue, and she had a c-section, then with her second had a UR. She complained of the same "ice pick" pain.









I would still chat with your MW about this I bet she will have some reasonable advice and some reassurance for you. I think sometimes doctors are just quick to make a decision/assessment and sometimes don't think how it will come across. Your old OB sounds like she was talking out of her butt so who knows. Maybe she just wasn't super experienced and that was just her opinion. I have received some advice like that when the OB has been faced with a particular complication/situation that they are not experienced with and turns out they were wrong! So...try not to worry and good luck!