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Earthy low intervention home birthers unite

post #1 of 23
Thread Starter 
Starting this thread in an effort to find other pregnant mammas who are not interested in interventions such as u/s, dopplers, fetal testing. Or those mammas who believe in simplicity and the natural process of pregnancy and birth.

We are out there...I know we are...
post #2 of 23
hello mama. i am moving this to the pregnant tribe.
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post #4 of 23
I bet you could find more going to the Unassisted Childbirth forum...
post #5 of 23
I think you are also knocking out quite a few people there with your list of requirements. I believe in the simplicity and natural process of pregnancy and birth, I'm UP/UC'ing this time around.. but I like my doppler. i had a miscarriage 6 weeks prior to conceiving this one and it's been integral for my peace of mind. I understand the controversy surrounding the use of such technology but for me it feels right. I don't abuse it... ever.
post #6 of 23
Sounds like me
post #7 of 23
I'm also not entirely opposed to the doppler, but don't do "fetal testing," and like to be as low-intervention as possible. We had a good chuckle (my MWs and I) after my last birth about all the things I *wasn't* doing. One asked if I wanted to do something, perhaps some powder on the umbilicus. Then we just shrugged and said, "well, we're not doing anything *else* - why do that?"

I'll likely have an u/s but am not 100% settled on it at this point. So I may not fall in your tribe, but I'm certainly very pro-low intervention HB.
post #8 of 23
I am very low-intervention as well, though I had a u/s for gender and like to hear the heartbeat at my MW office. I AM having a hospital birth because I am vbacing and homebirth MWs can't attend vbacs in my state. But, I had no fetal testing and I will push for no interventions at delivery.
post #9 of 23
With DD I did have the doppler a few times in pregnancy and was fine with it in labor.... but declined pretty much everything else.

I think it'll be the same this time. I've done surrogacy in between my own babies and there is a ton of required techno stuff with those.... glad I'm back in charge of what I want for my own baby

This is my husband & I's first together and he was pretty mainstream when his son was born so I am expecting a few raised eyebrows on his side when we don't do all the typical (to them) things. Luckily he is strongly in agreement with me so that will help me get through it.
post #10 of 23


The only testing I do is the gbs test. That way if there is a transfer, I can prove the baby doesn't need abx.
post #11 of 23
Thread Starter 
Silver Lace - it's our first together as well (and his first)...he's good at standing by my side with what I decide...not to say he hasn't questioned a few things but did his own research and agrees in the end. I love this man!

anyone using a fetoscope rather than a doppler...or even a pinard horn (I think they are fabulous!).
post #12 of 23
If I had a fetoscope at this point I would use it, but I don't... just the doppler. I don't use it very often and I did use it more early on, it helped shortly after the first tri ended and I wasn't really feeling movement or sickies. Having had a miscarriage so soon before conceiving this one really messed with my head... I did not need that reassurance with my other pregnancies. I'm pretty sure this is my last, it's been the most relaxed of all of my pregnancies. I love not having to answer to anybody and doing my own care. I love not being pushed into testing that I don't seek out myself and I love not having to argue with someone over my care. Had I known how nice this could be I likely would have chose to do this with all of them!
post #13 of 23
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Originally Posted by ~Demeter~ View Post
I love not having to answer to anybody and doing my own care. I love not being pushed into testing that I don't seek out myself and I love not having to argue with someone over my care.
How amazing...
if I had the know how I would love to birth on my own and offer my own prenatal care. However, because of a high risk last time around, i was transfered to the hospital and have hence never experienced a HB...I think I would need to experience it once with care before I would take on my own care.

my mw is pretty good...but I have to remind her each time about what I am doing vs. not doing...I'm hoping to see her remember this about me at some point.
post #14 of 23
I did have an u/s at 15 weeks to make sure there was only one baby (i was measuring 7 weeks ahead at that point) and my MW used the doppler at each prenatal appointment and once during labour. Other than that i had a testing and intervention free pregnancy and birth of a true knot babe with a bunch of placenta craziness (velamentous marginal cord insertion, heart shaped placenta). I am pro-low/no intervention.
post #15 of 23
I'm almost right there with you. I do okay the doppler, but have only had my mw listen three times for a few minutes at a time so far... and I'm 29 weeks. We may move to the fetoscope for later appointments. I didn't even have my first mw appointment until 20 weeks. I do pee on a stick when I see her, but that's about it. No u/s. I don't even step on a scale. That has been really freeing this time around. I have considered getting my iron checked, but my mw says if I'm worried I should just get the floradix and start taking it.... but I seem to be really bad about getting to the health food store for supplements of any kind lately.

I have fast births, so with my last two homebirths, never had a vaginal exam. My mw arrived just after ds2's head was out to catch him, and made it in time for one heartbeat check with ds3 before he was born. So, I've had about as low intervention births as you can get.

I'm rh-, so I will choose to get rhogam after birth (I do not take it during pg) IF I have a rh+ baby. My last two were both -, however, so it wasn't an issue.

It does seem like when I was on Mothering even just a couple years ago when pregnant with my second that there were a lot less testing done. I was a little surprised this time around at how many are doing blood testing and routine and often mutliple u/s. I'm not disparaging those choices at all... just surprised at the seeming escalation of use in the natural parenting community just in the past few years.
post #16 of 23
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It does seem like when I was on Mothering even just a couple years ago when pregnant with my second that there were a lot less testing done. I was a little surprised this time around at how many are doing blood testing and routine and often mutliple u/s. I'm not disparaging those choices at all... just surprised at the seeming escalation of use in the natural parenting community just in the past few years.

have notices this as well. as with you, no judgement, just notice.
post #17 of 23
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post #18 of 23
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How amazing...
if I had the know how I would love to birth on my own and offer my own prenatal care. However, because of a high risk last time around, i was transfered to the hospital and have hence never experienced a HB...I think I would need to experience it once with care before I would take on my own care.

my mw is pretty good...but I have to remind her each time about what I am doing vs. not doing...I'm hoping to see her remember this about me at some point.

I've yet to experience a homebirth as well... actually I've yet to experience natural labor aside from my natural miscarriage. I have been induced 4 times now. My last would have ended in a section had I not had a different doctor.

That said, I've come very far on my journey. I've embraced why exactly this happens to me and I think I'm safe and comfortable with the assumption that I can without a doubt birth on my own. Part of me (in the beginning) wanted to find a good midwife but here in IL it's practically impossible and then cost was also a factor. I couldn't afford to pay the midwife, drive two hours to see her for appointments, etc. So.. this is where I've been pulled. I'm happy here though, happier than I think I would have been with a provider and I'm confident that this time I will birth my way, at home and on MY terms.
post #19 of 23
I'm UP/UCing this time around. We are still up in the air about one gender U/S for my hubby's sake, he really wants it, but has also said that if I feel like we shouldn't, then he won't push it anymore, but I do want to respect him as well.

That will probably be the only intervention the entire preg
post #20 of 23
I'm in! I did let the MW use the doppler at our last visit because she couldn't find the heartbeat with the fetoscope, but we're not doing any other interventions or testing. Baby #1 never even had the doppler
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