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Originally Posted by Pavlovs 

I could have written your post word for word. 
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It's a real jumble of emotions, isn't it?!!
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Originally Posted by gagin37 
We're still nursing, maybe 2-3x a day. There is some discomfort when he latches on, but then it seems to ease up a bit once he gets going. He did recently go a full 24 hours in between nursing though, and a couple mornings last week he skipped his morning nursing session. I feel like he will wean before the new baby arrives.
this exactly. ds is 26 months, and I feel like we've made a good run of it.
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You have!!

I nursed ds that long; weaning happened pretty gently (he initiated) and it was when I wasn't pg, so I would have gone longer, if needed.
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Originally Posted by havsulen 
This is my second time nursing through a pregnancy, and this time I night weaned about a month ago, when I felt that I really needed more uninterupted sleep (I wasn't able to go back to sleep easily after nursing, something that was easy when not pregnant). She dealt with the change without sadness (thankfully!) and is ok cuddling at night instead. Wow, that really made a difference for me, and made dealing with her day nursing so much easier. She is 2,5 years old now, but an eager nursling so I don't think she'll wean before birth. If she does I don't mind, but I would be glad to nurse her through our cold winterr
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I am glad to hear that someone else has the sleep interruption issues!! Argh! My dd is NOT taking to the cuddling very well (she's a little young for nightweaning, IMHO) but we're getting there and she's learning how to go back to sleep without nursing. I waver between guilt and knowing that 'it all comes out in the wash.' Lots of kids have learned how to sleep through the night pretty well by now... just not mine!!

And then I have to remember that nightweaning *might* help the nightwaking but the two aren't necessarily related. But I figure if we can change the association from 'I have to nurse back to sleep' to 'back rub & paci' we'll both do better come this spring- and now!!
I feel guilty when I set limits (which *I* need for my sanity) and then mad if I don't make my needs known... Hahaha- is motherhood anything but guilt?!!

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