Hi AKA-can you believe our boys are almost 2???
My DD is 5 and we've been battling this since she was a babe. We've been to allergists, naturopaths, chiros, tried cranio sacral, GPs and dermatologists. First thing to do is figure out if there is a family history of atopic eczema (which is often seen in conjunction with asthma and seasonal allergies): diet might not be a factor. You can also try an elimination diet: dairy is usually the main thing.
The good news is that 50% of kids outgrow it by 3ish (unfortunately, not my DDs case).
Some things that can help:
-oatmeal baths
-limiting baths to 20 minutes or less; having coolish baths: pat dry and apply a barrier to the skin (i usually stick to olive oil, but coconut, sweet almond oil, grapeseed oil and evening primrose oil can help too)
-applying a barrier cream several times a day.
-our derm was telling us about bleach baths...sounds crazy, but apparently it can work (I haven't tried it)!
-adding fats to the diet-fish oil, flaxseed, avocado...
-probiotics
-only wear 100% cotton; use Tide Free, cheer Free, Ivory snow (try an extra rinse in the wash)
Our derm. gave us this list of products, though I haven't tried them yet:
-Cetaphil lotion, cliniderm mousturizer, lipikar baume to moisturize
-cliniderm shampoo and conditioner, dove for sensitive skin bar soap
-prevex, crtaphil barrier cream for hands
With eczema, you have to manage the itch, the infection, the dryness and the eczema...it is not fun!!! If you can prevent the itch, you can prevent a lot of the fallout from eczema too (it is a nasty cycle!). Good luck-and if you find anything else, let us know!