I know there is nothing I can do about this, but, really, it's making me so angry. My ex and I have "our" DD, he has another DD with someone else. Our DD is adopted, and I don't know if that plays into this or not, his other DD is biological. Ex is no longer with either of his DD's mama's, hasn't been for years. He is more out of than "in" my DD's life. He is totally still in his other DD's life.
A few weeks ago he asked our DD if she wanted to go to the cabin with him for a weekend. She was excited to go, wanted to see her grandparents, who live at the cabin. At the last minute, dad called, said he couldn't take DD to the cabin because g'ma, who has alzheimer's, wasn't doing well, and having "strangers" around would upset her. Fine, sounded like a good excuse.
Today, I was looking through FB and notice pictures on DD's sisters site (ex's other DD). She went to the cabin the weekend that my DD was supposed to go AND she brought her boyfriend ("first time at the cabin with my bf" was the caption under one of the pictures). It pisses me off that my DD is considered a "stranger" who could upset g'ma, yet the other DD can go and bring her boyfriend!!!
I am so upset and hurt by the unfair treatment of my DD. My DD is older, and I stay out of things between her and her dad. I know at some point she will realize that she deserves to be treated better by him. My ex and I remained friends after our divorce...until he started messing with my DD and her feelings. I don't get how he can live with himself!!!!
A few weeks ago he asked our DD if she wanted to go to the cabin with him for a weekend. She was excited to go, wanted to see her grandparents, who live at the cabin. At the last minute, dad called, said he couldn't take DD to the cabin because g'ma, who has alzheimer's, wasn't doing well, and having "strangers" around would upset her. Fine, sounded like a good excuse.
Today, I was looking through FB and notice pictures on DD's sisters site (ex's other DD). She went to the cabin the weekend that my DD was supposed to go AND she brought her boyfriend ("first time at the cabin with my bf" was the caption under one of the pictures). It pisses me off that my DD is considered a "stranger" who could upset g'ma, yet the other DD can go and bring her boyfriend!!!
I am so upset and hurt by the unfair treatment of my DD. My DD is older, and I stay out of things between her and her dad. I know at some point she will realize that she deserves to be treated better by him. My ex and I remained friends after our divorce...until he started messing with my DD and her feelings. I don't get how he can live with himself!!!!
