Wow, no, not at all. And the "my way or the highway" comment? What a UAV.
Don't let him or the nurses make you feel bad about anything, they obviously don't think too hard about their comments before letting their mouths flap.
Although, I have to admit I didn't appreciate the lecture from the intake nurse about how I would need all kinds of extra prenatal testing and care because of my increased risk of having a baby with a medical problem. On a good note, she didn't give me a hard time about not wanting an amnio. She just said I'd be sent to the MFM doc for a level 2 u/s. I, of course, can decline that if/when the time comes. I think I would get that, though, just to make sure there aren't any issues that may preclude me from having a homebirth.
The, "my way or the highway" comment is what bothered me the most. I don't like to be ignored and dismissed. I'm not good at doing what I'm told, either.
As for my charting, I'm not sure how reliable my chart is going to be. I keep waking up really early and not being able to get back to sleep. I've been temping when I first wake up and then again at my usual time (or as close to it as I get before I give up on getting back to sleep). My temp has been the same, 97.3, except for 2 days when it was 97.7. I'm beginning to wonder if that's inaccurate and just what my temp is after laying in bed for an hour or two without sleeping.