Hi Mawood! Welcome back :)
You are not alone. Although I am no longer breastfeeding, our LO refuses to eat real food. If we try to force it a bit, he has a serious gag reflex and vomits. He will not eat solid food, but he'll eat stage 2 baby food so we're having to make do with formula and baby food.
I've talked to our Ped about it and they told us not to worry until they are over a year, but I mean, come on, it's only a few weeks away for us, and I don't see anything changing any time soon. I'm going to be contacting the birth to 3 folks to see what they have for resources, and I'm also going to push it with our Ped to get a referral to a feeding program at a nearby hospital.
In the meantime, we're following the Ped's advice to offer food all the time and let him explore and be messy. He has alot of fun with the food, playing with it, but not once has he been interested in putting it in his mouth. I've even put food on his tray and eaten off it with my fingers to show him how it's done, and he smiles and thinks it's great fun for mommy to be doing that, but I guess it doesn't occur to him that he should do it too.
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