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I can't decide which school to send my 5 yo to!

post #1 of 7
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My plan all along was to unschool the kids, but this year DD1 is 5, and un- or home- schooling is out of the question this year. I am in school (nursing) full-time, and I work as well, so I will be gone or sleeping (I work nights) every single day from mid-August until mid-December. I graduate next December, and I'll be unschooling after that (either from December on, or after DD finishes the school year).

DD got into 2 charter schools in the area. The first called us months ago, and we did all the paperwork, and DD has seen the school and spent a couple hours with the teachers, and is very excited about going to school. The second school just called me a week ago, and they have an open house/registration event next week. We haven't seen the school yet.

At this point I don't care which school she will be learning the most at; I just want the school that will do the least amount of damage until I'm able to be home enough to unschool.

School #1 is an accelerated K-12 school that is based on the "Core Knowledge" books by E.D. Hirsch. They have a longer school day "to accommodate a 105 minute rotating lab and intensive learning formats". They also group the children according to skill level to 'further accelerate learning in Math and language arts.' Pros to this school: they are very conveniently located, near to both our house and the sitter's, who will be doing some pick up and drop off. Cons: it's not really my ideal style of learning.

School #2 is a brand-new Waldorf-style charter school. Pros to this school: I much prefer the style. Cons: It's farther away, so it would be less convenient for the sitter to pick her up and drop her off. And, my #1 complaint: DD is very interested in letters & sounds, and suddenly has an interest in telling time. I would feel weird about discouraging this interest.

I am so stuck, I keep going back and forth and can't decide They are two very, very different schools. DH is no help whatsoever at deciding.
post #2 of 7
If how much "damage" the school will do to the unschooling lifestyle is the key factor, I think school #2 will be your choice.

But I'm sure your DD would survive a semester in an unideal learning environment for her and be able to bounce back or regain any love of learning that was lost, so if location is really way better with school #1 and that is important enough...

I'd also venture to guess that if it is a brand-new Waldorf charter school that is still a public school there will be more letter learning and such than a strict Waldorf school.

Tjej
post #3 of 7
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Thank you, that's what I was wondering too (about the PS Waldorf school would be less "hard-core" than normal Waldorf schools).
post #4 of 7
I'm struggling with this one too. We don't have a need to send our daughter, nor a desire, but SHE does! She's four and really wants to give school a try, so we're doing it. We've been fortunate to find a publicly funded alternative school which focuses on child led learning, loose grade placement (all 'split' classes with 20 children and 2 teachers each), and a high focus on family involvement. It also has a Unitarian principal, which goes great with our spiritual and social beliefs. The downfall is that it's full day, every day!
I'm afraid of a slippery slope......like heading to the hospital for a birth need and ending up with the whole medical package. lol I want her to lead her learning experience and be here to support her with whatever works. For now, I know that school is right. Especially because we just moved accross the country and she's craving some consistent social contacts.
The papers are all filled out and have been on our fridge for 2 months......
post #5 of 7
I'd go with #2, and satisfy those interests and desires of hers at home.

Unless -- Are you opposed to just keeping her home/with the sitter until you can unschool? (Am I having deja vu? Did I already "talk" about this with you?! ) In AK, 7 is the mandatory enrollment age, whether home/private/public... You definitely don't have to enroll her if you choose not to. Just a thought!
post #6 of 7
I'd take her to the new school to she what she thinks. I would lean towards the other school though, unless she showed a strong preference for the waldorfy school.

My concerns would center more on the newness of the Waldorfy school. After the first year of the charter school in the town I live in, every single faculty member quit! New schools can be very unstable and unpredictable, no matter how good the intentions of the founders are.
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I'm afraid of a slippery slope......like heading to the hospital for a birth need and ending up with the whole medical package. lol I want her to lead her learning experience and be here to support her with whatever works. For now, I know that school is right. Especially because we just moved accross the country and she's craving some consistent social contacts.
The papers are all filled out and have been on our fridge for 2 months......
Me too! I'm afraid that if I send her for this year, and next year, that she won't want to be home/unschooled after that, and then DD2 will want to go to school like big sis (she is already insisting on preschool), and then DS will want to, too....

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I'd go with #2, and satisfy those interests and desires of hers at home.

Unless -- Are you opposed to just keeping her home/with the sitter until you can unschool? (Am I having deja vu? Did I already "talk" about this with you?! ) In AK, 7 is the mandatory enrollment age, whether home/private/public... You definitely don't have to enroll her if you choose not to. Just a thought!
You are right, we have already had a similar convo . That was before she got into the Waldorf school, and I don't know if being home with the sitter would be any better than going to school, since the DCP is doing preschool type stuff with the kids.

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I'd take her to the new school to she what she thinks. I would lean towards the other school though, unless she showed a strong preference for the waldorfy school.

My concerns would center more on the newness of the Waldorfy school. After the first year of the charter school in the town I live in, every single faculty member quit! New schools can be very unstable and unpredictable, no matter how good the intentions of the founders are.
That's my concern (one of them at least ) as well. I dont know how well they are going to do their first year.

And, all this is further complicated by the fact that my school schedule was rearranged at the last minute, which meant I had to apply for an educational leave of absence from work, which means I have way more time at home and now I am wondering if I should just scrap teh school thing (and break poor DD's heart ) and unschool her like I want to. Poor DH is in the middle and really doesn't care either way, or if she goes or not, or which school, or anything.
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