I used to suffer from the same thing. After finally figuring out that my anxiety came from not wanting to end up like my mother...the packrat...I realized I had to find a balance. I now only clean about 20 minutes a day...I take Sat. morning to do the big stuff...bathrooms, floors, windows...but set a time limit. I have found that minimalism, while creating a happy, comfy space is most important to me. I also agree with what others have said, just take time for yourself and find your time to enjoy.