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post #21 of 25
Your making me feel like a bad mother also cause my DD 2 1/2 and can't identify most letters or numbers. She knows her ABC's but some are garbled and can only count to 10. So if your bad, I'm worse
post #22 of 25
T (sort of)

A banana allergy is frequently linked to latex allergy. There is an entire spectrum of foods (mostly fruits and veggies) with common proteins: banana, avocado, carrot, kiwi, chestnuts, tomato, raw potato, plums, pears...Some people react to all, some to just a few, but an allergy to banana and avocado usually raises a warning.

Don't worry about your little guy!! Our oldest was stringing words together at 12 mos.--and she set a horrible precedent for the next two. We had to seriously suppress our expectations for our second child--and he was fine, perfectly normal, just different. Our youngest is on target with social and language development, but his severe food allergies really impacted his physical strength. He didn't walk until 18 mos. I just put away the books that charted what he was supposed to be doing b/c, frankly, I had to focus on him and the books were depressing. Now he's 20 mos. and into everything--but he's also more cautious than the other two were because he's been watching everything for so long. He has never toppled down even the two steps that go down into our living room b/c he had it planned out long before he tried it. So put the books away. Just play with son, talk to him, read to him--he'll get everything he needs!!

Missy
post #23 of 25
To be blunt - I think many people exaggerate and flat out lie about their children's accomplishments on message boards. Try not to compare based on postings from people you do not know.

Everything you posted about your child sounded normal to me.
post #24 of 25
Here's a big hug for you!! You're doing a great job with your son. Now go put your baby milestone books away, get your earplugs and teflon body armor out when your Mom starts in with advice, and go enjoy your sweet boy!

My son had speed crawl, bear crawl, speed bear crawl, this hysterical scoot so he could carry toys. . . so he didn't walk until he was 16 months old. No need!! He could pull himself up and reach and get around as fast as he wanted to.

But there were times when I felt I needed to "explain" him to the masses. "No, he's not walking yet."

And the teething thing will pass!

Definitely explore the food allergy issue. We haven't had to deal with that, so I have no experience there.

Hope today is a better day!
post #25 of 25


My daughter just turned 17 months and doesn't know one letter or number, JUST put her first two words together (heavy book), and can identify pup, kitty, and duck.

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE don't expect your NOT EVEN 15-month-old to know letters and numbers. I can't imagine a child that young knowing that stuff. If they do, they've been drilled by their parents.

Believe me when I tell you this: They all learn what they need.

Make a conscious choice not to worry about it and STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT!

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