Oops, forgot about this thread.
I received this money after my father died. It was his retirement fund. I was the sole living named beneficiary, but my dad had other children. As the oldest, he left me in charge to help them because he knew they would blow their share. That's why I bought cars for my siblings.
I did get more than just $100k, but not in the realm of millions upon millions.
I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. I am able to function fairly normally. I just spent about 5 years working M-F, 24 hrs/wk. I was feeling a big flare coming on right when I got the money, so I went on sabbatical. LOL I can always go back, I left on good terms so that that bridge was not burned.
I want to spend the next year being more involved with volunteer projects at the kids' school and at my church. But I do know I will have to go back to work before too long.
I don't think buying a house would be a good idea right now. I hate where I live. It's actually bad for my illness to be here, but Ican't leave the state until ds1 is 18. I'm not sure it would be smart to buy now and then have to sell in 2-3 years. There's a good chance the house wouldn't sell anyway, and I don't want to have to deal with a renter while I live thousands of miles away.
Right now I pay about $700/mo for a decent 3/2/2. When something breaks, the owner fixes it. For example, we had a power surge last week and all the can lights in the kitchen blew at once. If I had had to pay for the electrician, it would have been bad.
Yes, I bought an SUV, but I want to be able to cart my kids' friends around and carry camping equipment, etc. It's a Honda and I can sell it back to the dealership anytime for a fair price. I have been told by more than one person, IRL and on line that I negotiated an incredible price. Right now, I could sell the car for about $1k less than I paid for it a year ago. It's very likely that when I finish my volunteer project and go back to work I will sell the truck and get a new small sedan.
I looked over the info on the Vanguard fund and I pretty much don't understand any of it. Is it saying that an investment of $10k gets you a return of $1k after one year? So I would make $10k in 12mos by putting in $100k? So confusing!