I've really learned a lot about the diverse experiences of families in public schools across America. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts! I really had a skewed view based on how things are here in PA.
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8/17/10 at 11:38pm
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During vacation?!? Woah. I guess we've dodged that bullet so far, though I suspect as we get up in grades it will get more involved.
So far our vacation homework has only been to keep a journal and reading log, equivalent to about half the days off. I find them excellent assignments -- straightforward and reasonable, and allows for a real vacation in there. |
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8/18/10 at 3:14pm
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Ohio here. We pay for field trips, school lunches and a $36 supply fee per kid that is waived if your on the free lunch program. We also have to buy school supplies.
for my first grader:
pencils
fiskar scissors
4 4oz bottles of elmers glue
box of 24 crayons
paint shirt
2 family sized boxes of tissues
tennis shoes
plastic supply box
headset for pc
2 pocket folders
bic bright liners (5 color set)
1 box quart size ziploc bags
baby wipes
book bag
For my 3rd grader:
notebook paper
scissors
pencils
elmers glue
erasers
soft pencil bag
6 plastic folders-green,blue,red,yellow
2 boxes of tissues
2 spiral 1 subject notebooks
ruler
paint shirt
large glue stick
2 red pens
1 pkg dry erase markers
colored pencils
markers
headset for pc
1 pair safety googles
1 box ez-zip quart size ziploc bags
8oz hand soap
book bag
for my first grader:
pencils
fiskar scissors
4 4oz bottles of elmers glue
box of 24 crayons
paint shirt
2 family sized boxes of tissues
tennis shoes
plastic supply box
headset for pc
2 pocket folders
bic bright liners (5 color set)
1 box quart size ziploc bags
baby wipes
book bag
For my 3rd grader:
notebook paper
scissors
pencils
elmers glue
erasers
soft pencil bag
6 plastic folders-green,blue,red,yellow
2 boxes of tissues
2 spiral 1 subject notebooks
ruler
paint shirt
large glue stick
2 red pens
1 pkg dry erase markers
colored pencils
markers
headset for pc
1 pair safety googles
1 box ez-zip quart size ziploc bags
8oz hand soap
book bag
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8/22/10 at 4:19pm
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I haven't read through, so someone from AZ may have already chimed in.
We have severe budget problems.
We have to pay $50 to go towards keeping the Visual Arts Program. Our school supply list includes basic cleaning supplies as well as reams of paper.
Of course, if one cannot pay they are not penalized. The PTO will try to provide for families who cannot pay the art fee or buy supplies.
I also pay $118/month for ds to be there a full day. They cut to 1/2 day kinder this year and opened an afternoon program for us parents who work.
We have severe budget problems.
We have to pay $50 to go towards keeping the Visual Arts Program. Our school supply list includes basic cleaning supplies as well as reams of paper.
Of course, if one cannot pay they are not penalized. The PTO will try to provide for families who cannot pay the art fee or buy supplies.
I also pay $118/month for ds to be there a full day. They cut to 1/2 day kinder this year and opened an afternoon program for us parents who work.
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8/22/10 at 4:25pm
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Also in my area Title 1 schools get extra federal funding and in many instances offer programs superior to those in upper income-earning neighborhoods.
As a result, a lot of families use the open enrollment system and send their kids to the Title 1 schools. Higher income earning families. My feelings on that are conflicted and I'm not sure why.
As a result, a lot of families use the open enrollment system and send their kids to the Title 1 schools. Higher income earning families. My feelings on that are conflicted and I'm not sure why.
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8/22/10 at 8:53pm
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Breaks are sacred! In the same way, I tell the kids NOT to expect me to grade all the projects over MY break
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This year my dd had "work" over every single break. Since she was in K, it wasn't "graded" but it seemed to be expected. When we took a vacation mid-winter, the teacher suggested that she keep a journal and then give a presentation to the class when she returned. DD refused to do it, and I didn't push it. This summer she was sent home with 100 pages (or more) of work that was to be completed over summer along with a work schedule for the parents to abide by -- math on Monday, writing on Tues., etc. This isn't make up work because she met or exceeded all grade level expectations.
I never answered the OP's question, but have been following the thread. Our elementary school has a limited amount of suggested supplies, but none that are required. There are some $'s asked for field trips, but are minimal and I have a high suspicion that this would be covered for children in need. I asked my dss, who is 17 and he said that in his school (same state and city, but different school district) he absolutely had to provide his basic supplies - binders, pencils, pens, paper, calculator, etc. I asked him what would happen if he didn't have a pencil. He said that he might be lucky and the teacher would loan him one for the class.
I'm not sure why, but even reading through this entire thread it just doesn't seem legal to require supplies beyond what the school can provide.
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8/22/10 at 8:55pm
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Hmmm...... I thought at one point that AZ was moving to full day K. Guess Janet didn't get her way, huh?
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8/23/10 at 2:12am
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They were at full day. And then major budget issues state wide. Some districts held on to full-day kinder, many lost it. Our school decided to go to 1/2 day and use the money to keep the music program.
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In our state, full day is not required (yet), so those choosing full day kindergarten pay some. I guess you could view it as child care costs, but around here the full day kindergartens spread out the curriculum through the day.
We got a *second* supply list from the school on Saturday. This one is because DD's in a different math program. School starts tomorrow, and DD has until Thursday to get those supplies in. Again, the cost isn't the huge issue for me. The issue is the lack of respect for my time. I already went out searching for supplies. Now I need to go again. My time this week is already spoken for.
All our supplies go into a general pool for each classroom. When DD's supply list requires a clipboard, it goes into a pile during "meet the teacher" night (tonight) and we don't get any of it home at the end of the year. Since clipboards, rulers, etc are not consumable or disposable, why are we buying new ones each year? It seems to me that these things are just part of the classroom? Either that, or they could send them home at the end of the year and I send it right back for the next year.
We got a *second* supply list from the school on Saturday. This one is because DD's in a different math program. School starts tomorrow, and DD has until Thursday to get those supplies in. Again, the cost isn't the huge issue for me. The issue is the lack of respect for my time. I already went out searching for supplies. Now I need to go again. My time this week is already spoken for.
All our supplies go into a general pool for each classroom. When DD's supply list requires a clipboard, it goes into a pile during "meet the teacher" night (tonight) and we don't get any of it home at the end of the year. Since clipboards, rulers, etc are not consumable or disposable, why are we buying new ones each year? It seems to me that these things are just part of the classroom? Either that, or they could send them home at the end of the year and I send it right back for the next year.
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8/24/10 at 4:04pm
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Full day K is absolutely not daycare. DD did full day K last year and was going from 8:15 to 2:45. They did library, music (once a week with the music teacher and every day in regular class), had reading time (both group for comprehension and on their own for learning to read), a short snack time in the morning, lunch, recess, art, math, social studies...they were doing something or learning the entire day.
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$60 school fees (Kindergarten - most elementary schools in our district run +/- $10 or $15)
The usual supplies - crayons, glue sticks, scissors, whatever. Kleenex and Clorox wipes, but no hand sanitizer.
Buses are free. School lunch is $2.50 a day.
I gave them 1/2 for the fees, and said I'd pay $5 a month until the rest is paid off, even though there are some months that I let the electric bill or water bill slide so I can pay the other one off.
$60 school fees (Kindergarten - most elementary schools in our district run +/- $10 or $15)
The usual supplies - crayons, glue sticks, scissors, whatever. Kleenex and Clorox wipes, but no hand sanitizer.
Buses are free. School lunch is $2.50 a day.
I gave them 1/2 for the fees, and said I'd pay $5 a month until the rest is paid off, even though there are some months that I let the electric bill or water bill slide so I can pay the other one off.
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I saw this today, and thought of this thread:
http://www.aclu.org/blog/human-right...-fees-students
I'm not trying to start any kind of political discussion. Just thought it was interesting and could be useful to anyone who wants to fight the fees. At least in California...
http://www.aclu.org/blog/human-right...-fees-students
I'm not trying to start any kind of political discussion. Just thought it was interesting and could be useful to anyone who wants to fight the fees. At least in California...
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Debi, that was a fascinating article. Thank you for posting it! I especially found this part interesting, as it answered some of our questions on this thread about whether public school was intended to be free and universal:
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So, I guess now I'm curious-- what do you have to pay for to attend public school? And what if you can't pay it? And if anyone can clarify to me how public schools can charge when I thought all children in America were guaranteed a free education (although maybe I am misremembering that and it's not a guaranteed right?) I would really appreciate that as well.
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Breakfast is free to all students but parents have to apply for reduced or free lunch.
The school does ask for a donation for school supplies but makes it clear that this is an optional donation.
Students do have to provide uniforms (plain shirts and pants) and I don't know if there is any kind of assistance for that. Each child gets one free school shirt.
Field trips are not free (I wish we would use some of our fundraising money to change that) but I don't think any child is turned away because they can't pay. Though I am always a bit concerned that some families may not want to ask for assistance.
In other words, our school is pretty much free.
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We are "founding families" at a local public charter school. Part of our agreement with them is that we have to contribute at least $3000 / year prior to attending school and then an equal amount PLUS 200 hours of service (or more money) while in school AND they want everyone doing the fairly expensive school lunch. The founding families only represent about 15% of the school. Everyone else is there by lottery.
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That kind of thing would not fly in Baltimore where any hint of buying your way into a better public school would get the school board's attention right away.
*ETA: Though I do know you can pay from another district to go to some Baltimore City Public Magnet Schools...so that basically contradicts what I just said. I don't know how the district reconciles those two distinct approaches.
*ETA Agani: JudiAU -- I TOTALLY didn't mean that you were unethical or even your school really...I was kind of just talking about the policy and probably more the greater school board.
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9/17/10 at 11:11pm
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My kids' school is like this as well, if the family cannot afford to pay they would never turn a child away. They have a special fund that the teachers and parents donate to in the event a family just "cant".
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Here (Portland, OR) half-day kindy is free, but full day you have to pay. I think it's like 300/mo? My dd's not old enough yet, but I know it's coming. If your child goes to a school with a high enough percentage of free and reduced lunch families, then all of the kids get free all day kindy, even the higher SES ones, but if your child goes to a school with more high income kids, even if you're not, you have to pay. It really sucks because most schools don't actually offer half-day kindy, so if you don't want to pay for it, you just have to pick up in the middle of the day. So, if they do math in the morning and reading in the afternoon, for example, you have to choose which one you want.
I figure I can offer my dd LOTS of cool opportunities and extras with 300/month homeschooling. We're not required to enroll in school or declare as homeschoolers or do anything until the kids are 7 here, so we definitely plan to HS for kindergarten at least.
Long answer, huh.
I figure I can offer my dd LOTS of cool opportunities and extras with 300/month homeschooling. We're not required to enroll in school or declare as homeschoolers or do anything until the kids are 7 here, so we definitely plan to HS for kindergarten at least.
Long answer, huh.
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We are in Colorado. DD will start kindergarten next year and it will be 'tuition based'. Our local school will cost $150 a month. If we choose a charter school, it will be $200 a month. In addition, there is a substantial 'school supply list' required. The charter school also requires uniforms!
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I always thought kindergarten was free, but we decided to try it for ds2 this year & we're supposed to pay $60. If he were in the academic stream, it would be $70. We also had to pay for indoor shoes & a variety of supplies. I think the parent advisory council covers field trip fees, at least partially. Kindy is only half day & we walk, so we don't have the bus fees & lunchroom fees the full day kids have.`
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