My new doctor...
Hi all, I really appreciate the suggestions. I was excited at least one recommendation of the suggestions, maybe from another board, Mark Bessette, accepts Arizona Health Choice insurance. Unfortunately, at his office at Carondelet, I was told he did not accept NEW patients w/ Health Choice, only existing patients with Health Choice. (?) I wanted to try suggestions posted here, but they are not on my provider list.
SO, I was redirected to another Dr. at the same office, who is new there, Rosana Nicoletti. I did not have a great experience with her, but I am starting to be just resigned to the whole process. I have some kind of philosophical questions about the role of a family doctor in our lives... and I'm not sure if this is the place for these thoughts, but...
I was raised to believe that you knew your doctor, and your doctor knew you. You could go and get information, opinions, and guidance from this person. Considering that MY young family only goes to the doctor if something is wrong (which is hardly ever)... is the whole idea of having a "family doctor" some sort of upper middle class myth i was brought up with, but does not apply to my present life?
Am I wrong in coming to the conclusion that with lower socio-economic status, along comes the inability to really choose the RIGHT kind of health provider for me and my family?
Because it's very possible my family will live in Eastern Europe in another year, at least for 5 months, we made the decision to go from an Un-vacc family to a selective/alt schedule vacc family. I suppose I should take DH's advice: to just go in and tell the Dr. what we want and what we are there for, get biz taken care of and that's it. I was under the impression that a family doctor would be interested in our family and in building a relationship with us, based on knowledge of our choices and reasons for addressing these health issues the way we do.
I'm rambling a bit, because I feel so emotional about this right now.
This new doctor, and I am coming to believe any doctor we deal with, will have very little patience for our choices and it will always be nothing but a distasteful skirmish to visit the Dr's office.
Any thoughts or experiences you can share, anyone?
*Losing Heart, and Sleep over This*
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