quick q

[beckyand3littlemonsters]

My donor came sunday because he is on holiday for a week but at this point i had only had some partial ferning on my ovulation microscope, now i haven't had any other fertile signs since so i guess i'm in the 9 days rather than 3.
Anyway getting to my point i have used another donor last night and will probably use him again before i actually o, if i o in the next couple of days which donor is more likely to be the "daddy" ? I'm not planning on co-parenting just want to know which one i tell of my success.

[Maurine]

I don't think there is any way to know. I guess tell both of them of your success but with the caveat that you also used another donor. Unless you wanted to do genetic testing down the road to confirm which is the father...

[beckyand3littlemonsters]

Thanks I just googled how long sperm live and it's only a maximum of 5 days in fertile cm which I have none of at the mo and didn't have any Sunday either so if I do get pregnant this cycle it is very likely it will be 2nd donor who is the "daddy"

[MaerynPearl]

Originally Posted by beckyand3littlemonsters

Thanks I just googled how long sperm live and it's only a maximum of 5 days in fertile cm which I have none of at the mo and didn't have any Sunday either so if I do get pregnant this cycle it is very likely it will be 2nd donor who is the "daddy"

You have no fertile CM that you are AWARE of. However, the CM you see is only an indicator of what is inside of you, where it matters, but does not always correspond. If you are about to O you probably do have fertile CM up inside of your uterus, and may have for several days.

So unless you O more than 5 days after the last time with the first donor, he could still have potentially been the one.

[beckyand3littlemonsters]

Originally Posted by MaerynPearl

You have no fertile CM that you are AWARE of. However, the CM you see is only an indicator of what is inside of you, where it matters, but does not always correspond. If you are about to O you probably do have fertile CM up inside of your uterus, and may have for several days.

So unless you O more than 5 days after the last time with the first donor, he could still have potentially been the one.

I'm not actually due to o till Monday but thought I was going to o early because of the partial ferning on my ovulation microscope, but cm, cp and opk's all suggest that I'm not in my fertile time yet.

[ZoeJane'sMommy]

Well either way good luck Becky, I hope this is a sticky month!!

[beckyand3littlemonsters]

Originally Posted by ZoeJane'sMommy

Well either way good luck Becky, I hope this is a sticky month!!

Thanks, i think it would be the 2nd guy if i am because a lot leaked out before i got my legs up with the 1st and then even after having my legs up for half an hour more leaked out onto my knickers (soz tmi) and none did with the 2nd so i think it will deffo be him if i am.