Can I ask a personal question?

[organicpapayamama]

So how are things going with intimacy? do you feel like you did before down there? reason I ask is because, well, its even better than before for me. Like Im more easily aroused. Sometimes even peeing feels...um... kinda good. is that normal? Has this happened to someone you know? Now I just wish I had a dp to use this great new find on lol

[KSDoulaMama]

Well, it's better than it was when I was pregnant anyway, haha! Doesn't take much...

No, things are pretty much the same as before I was pregnant, but there are so many hormone changes that your experience doesn't surprise me.

[katelove]

It is back to being good for me. It was hopeless when I was pregnant - painful, like an irritation, no matter how much lubricant we slathered on. The pain went as soon as J was born. I also feel like I have finally gotten rid of the negative Pill effects - dryness, low libido. Even though I went off the Pill (because of the side effects) at least 6 months before we started TTC I still had those problems which are now resolved. Yay

[namaste_mom]

Everytime I have a kid, things get rearranged down there, usually for the better. I suggest that you not have any more kids so that you can stick with your current setup.