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Helping him graduate?

post #1 of 6
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DS wants to be out of diapers. I feel awful putting him in one when he so clearly wants to be in underwear. He just is NOT consistent enough yet.

We started EC at 10 months old. I got pregnant when he was about 17 months old and we backed way off because I was so sick. He went back to being "diaper trained"(still kicking myself for it). We tried working slowly back at it around 20 months and he didn't cooperate. I even tried a week just going diaper free, and he was doing best with that, but still having lots of misses and we live with my mom right now while house hunting, so I felt bad and put him back in diapers with underwear underneath.

Now a month later he's back to just wanting underwear. Today he signed "potty" while wearing underwear and literally 2 seconds later he peed on the floor lol. It was too fast for my pregnant self to get off the couch, but he tried, and that was great!

So what would you do? He obviously WANTS to be out of diapers. I'm somewhere between EC and conventional methods now, which I am ok with. He loved getting praise and he loved being rewarded for dry pants. He did really well with the timer method as well.

I just know many of you have done traditional potty training with older children so I thought maybe some of you could give me ideas for a good mix here. Should I give him through the weekend in diapers and then next week when I will be home all week put him in underwear and try that again?
post #2 of 6
Just one idea- what about absorbent training pants rather than underwear or diapers?
post #3 of 6
with my son, when I knew nothing about EC, I just worked up slowly. Like, potty in the AM then coverless diaper at home in the mornings. Then, diaper free from wake-up until we went out, and that was for a couple of months. Then we started increasing the diaper-free time. Then, yeah, eventually we just went diaper free except when in the car and out for 2 months, and it was totally my decision to do that. Then diaper free except nap and nighttime... there were a bunch of misses but hey. He was totally a "grad" by the time he turned 2, I mean, could take himself to the potty with minimal reminders (if clothes were simple).

I think you should do what works for you. And if you are ready to clean up the misses, and you think he's ready to try, go for diaper-free for a couple of weeks and see if he "gets it". With my son though, underwear were a no-no. he'd just pee in them. We had to go nakey for about 3 weeks. Then "commando" for a while...
post #4 of 6
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The absorbent pants don't absorb much...He holds it for 3+ hours most of the time so by the time he goes there's too much to stay in them lol.

Emmaegbert--He actually does better in underwear than he does when naked. I think I am going to have to give it a shot this week because he is fighting diapers horribly!
post #5 of 6
go for it! (I just ordered trainers for my DD b/c she'd holding pee so well now.)
post #6 of 6
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Just have to update! About 2 weeks ago I found cloth diapers that would fit him(he outgrew the ones we were using before and stopped letting me do anything that wasn't a Pullup style--and didn't like the Bummi trainers so we were doing disposables). I have been using cloth or putting him in underwear under the Pullups. We have been sitting on the potty often each day, but nothing happening.

Tonight after dinner he was sitting on the potty making the grunts and faces, and HE PEED! Didn't stay up to poo, but that's ok. So I made a big deal and let him wear big boy underwear. A few minutes later he peed on the floor, so we went back to a diaper, then about 5 minutes later he signed "potty" so I took him, he had already wet the diaper, but I stuck him on the potty anyways...HE POOPED!

We are going to go full into it tomorrow now! This was just the push I needed!
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