WOW, I have been run off my feet! Not much to report at the moment. Sbx has the car and I have the old gas guzzling mini van. We got the subpoena'd bank account details which had lots of interesting frivilous activity on it including $1200 at Best Buy, $60+ at Sephora's, $45+ flowers etc. it also had a refund from our car insurance company. I called and found out that the week before he swapped (stole) the car he cancelled the insurance on it! Lovely!
The bad news is the Judge STILL hasn't signed the Status Quo order so he can do what ever he wants and cancel anything he wants! I'm angry about that!
We are going to court on Friday (1pm) and petitioning for temp child support and contempt of court for sbx breaking the restraining order. There is supposed to be no phone contact or physical contact at all, and all contact via text and email is supposed to be restricted to subjects directly linked to the children. He's having a very hard time sticking to it. he's called me this evening and been texting about how we need to chat and how he misses talking to me. He then texted saying I have said bad stuff to a mutual friend. The mutual friend he's refering to sent me a message advising me to get sbx's wages garnished!
I'm fighting my knee jerk reaction to defriend mutual friends but as I have written nothing but the truth I am not going to. I am also breaking the habit of responding to texts, emails and messages from sbx. It's hard though! Thank God for all my friends! they have done an amazing job of keeping me busy!
