All Jesus really wants from us is to believe in Him. Spend time with Him. Most other things will fall into place.
Spending time with Him can be as simple as sitting and reading one verse. Than thinking about it for the day. Or taking something that your thinking about then looking at it through "God's Eyes"
An example for me is----How BIG God is and how little we are. Sometimes I start to think about all the things that are going on around me. Then I stop and say Jesus is BIGGER then this.
Also you can talk to Him at anytime. day/night. Just tell Him what is on your mind. I thing that is great is that He is real and alive for you to have a great relationship with.
Can I say just one more thing? I think that if you do something and it is not what the Lord wanted yu to do he will tell you. If you are open to hear. You are free to do what you want. We are called not to sin. beyond that things are really open.
I know when that Lord wants me to do things. I know that He want me to go to college. So he made a clear way. I know that he wanted me to go on the missioin trip and a few other things. Yes, the more that you walk with Him the more you may feel Him showing you things to do, butr like I said you are really free to enjoy life. Do what will make you happy.
A very good teacher is Wayne Monbleau. www.lovinggrace.org
Hope that helps. And make sence I sure be sleeping it has been a long day.