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DS Screams when the 'meal' is over

post #1 of 7
Thread Starter 
This is not a new thing... but it's not getting any better.

DS is 11 months, has been on 'solids' (real, actual "meals"... a bit of protein, rice, veggies, fruits, whatever... normally whatever I'm eating), since about 9 months. So 2-3 months.

He eats Everything. So far, I haven't found anything he won't eat, including seaweed (in sushi), lemon pieces, and fish (although fish is a new one and only been a few times). Actually, I haven't been able to decipher anything he actually LIKES because he just wants everything. Meals have always been difficult - he wants more, he wants it faster. He doesn't want the spoon - he wants the spoon coming at him faster. He doesn't seem to care either way, self-feeding or spoon-fed.
Although if he's self-feeding, it HAS to be one bit at a time, or else he'll just cram everything in his mouth, and at lightning speed.

Now has a high-pitched squeal. So where I used to be able to take him out to a restaurant, now the Squeal, when food is not coming fast enough, is almost too much for a public place.

And when the "meal" is over, he has a total melt-down. With Tears. Everyone has witnessed it (friends/family). It seems like he's still hungry; or more so, that he's Starving.

At home, it's quenched with me also ending my meal, casually grabbing all the plates and taking them away, AND giving him a sippy of water (which he'll drink a good 2+oz). If I don't get him out of his "chair" immediately, he'll start up again.

He is not hungry. He can't possibly be.
Yes, I'll admit that I do want to talk to his ped about this (in detail), going over what I feed him in a day. But between 3 "meals" and bottles, which he's still getting 5-4oz during the day, one to go down at night, and one (sometimes) during the night... it seems like he's getting a TON of food. He's a chunk... granted, he's stretching out a bit. But he was 22lbs at 9 months... I bet he is still 22-25lbs (haven't weighed him in a while).

I've never heard of a baby doing this (and never seen one eat as much as he does); and neither have any of my friends/family. It is starting to be a concern.

Ideas?
post #2 of 7
Sounds like an enthusiastic eater!!!

But....I'm not sure that 3 "meals" and one 5 oz bottle is excessive. I would think that he should be still getting a few bottles of formula/breastmilk in addition to eating meals at 11 months. Most babes are still drinking from a bottle or breastfeeding multiple times at this age. Perhaps he really is still hungry? I would feed him a bottle BEFORE he has a meal so that he gets complete nutrition. Is he eating anything between meals? I can't just eat 3 meals a day and one glass of milk in a whole day either. I would still be hungry too. Just a thought.

Good luck!
post #3 of 7
He may still be hungry. Do his meals have a substantial amount of fat in them? That may help.

A is still getting 32 oz of formula/BM a day, in addition to the 2-3 meals he's eating. So 20 seems a bit light to me.
post #4 of 7
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by cristeen View Post
He may still be hungry. Do his meals have a substantial amount of fat in them?
Fat? Well, probably not. I don't eat a ton of fat, and if I have an indulgent meal for myself, I normally just feed him bits of it, and then "peas and carrots" for his food, yk? I hadn't considered the Fat factor.

Maybe the better question is... How much should he be eating? Again, I do want to ask his ped - maybe I'm really not feeding enough of the RIGHT things. I realize I'm somewhat naive, because I am feeding DSS (4yo) at the same time, who eats NOTHING. So when they are served up about the same amount of food...the 4yo won't eat, and the baby won't stop... maybe it's a bad comparison.

but let's take dinner tonight...
about 15 kidney beans (while I'm cooking). A few 'puffs' thrown in there, maybe 20.
Dinner was black bean/chicken burritos... which he had all the fixins. I use the tupperware containers left-over from those Gerber baby food things. I think they're 3oz. That was filled with black beans and chicken pieces (burrito stuffings). And then gave him another 2oz (at least) of peas and carrots, which he feeds to himself.

This is his normal size "meal".

Is that not enough? Spoon-feeding, with me taking a bite of my food in between, lasts an entire meal. So it looks like a lot of food, and takes a while to feed him.
post #5 of 7
nak

I would assume he IS still hungry and feed him more. Some people just eat more, and they really need to. I'm 5'0" and around 103 lbs or so. My husband is 6'0" and 180. I eat more than him. Every day, every meal, all the time, for the entire 10 years I've known him, I've always eaten more. We're both normal, healthy weights. We just have entirely different metabolisms. I would be pissed if he decided I "couldn't possiblly" be hungry, just because it looked to him like I'd eaten enough. lol
post #6 of 7
I don't have mealtimes here. We just eat when we are hungry. If I give my 19 mo some grapes and she brings me the bowl and says, "mo" I confirm she wants more and give it to her. If she brings me the bowl and says "doa" I confirm she is done. I feed them until they say they are done or until they begin dumping or throwing the food. If she acts at all fussy or chewing her fingers I ask her if she wants food. If she says yes, I show her a few different foods and let her pick what she wants from those choices. It does sound like your child is still hungry. Mine still nurses a lot but she eats a lot of food too. I agree you should try to feed him more and more often. Stick with pure foods IMO.
post #7 of 7
If he seems hungry i'd feed him more and not second-guess how hungry he "should" be. My own DD at 11 months was eating 4-6oz food 3x a day and having five 7oz bottles over the day too! She's never been overweight, and is a healthy little sprite. My friends kids ate even more than her!

Plummeting i think i have your hubby's metabolism but your appetite!
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