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post #21 of 24
I have two (one born a premie at 7 months and one full term) both TALKED and talked in full sentences by 12-15 months, not adjusted.

there is a big age difference between the two and there is a big difference between what is normal and what seems to be the new normal regarding talking

I was not aware until very recently there was a NEW normal for talking.

My DH does the playground thing and I don't, he didn't tell me but he has been asked for the last several months about our DS and how old he was, etc., not thinking anything of this, we went to a gathering of several people that deal with children, different ages of adults and this was pointed out to us about the NEW normal in age of talking.

I AM NOT saying the OP's child is in this group-just pointing this out----
there is a view that "late-talkers" are on the rise (due to various reasons) and there is even some Dr's that feel only a few words are fine at lets say 18 months and OLDER Dr.'s say no way and see an issue, same goes with older daycare works and other medical people dealing with children and the view seems to be different between ages and how long they have been dealing with children.

there is a lot that plays into it---there seems to be a lot of threads here on it and some see an issue others do not

we don't consider our DS advanced but lay-people do (a lot of first time mother's, younger in age-20's and 30's) and I have seen what I feel are a larger number of children older than or DS that are not speaking or hardly speaking and this is a change from 20 years ago-our DS is 2.5---it use to be very rare to see a child not talking (I knew of none of my DD's friends that didn't talk in full sentences by two at the latest)-this use to not even be an issue that mother's talked a lot about, none of the children in our playgroup or pre-school need EI, and this is now not all about autism (several factors can play into this)

just some links---there is lot out there on late-talkers (rise in late-talkers) and apraxia

http://www.medicinenet.com/script/ma...ticlekey=52130

www.shop-in-service.com/latetalker.htm

http://www.drgreene.mediwire.com/mai...ticleID=132720 talks about the study that shows the rise

just some info
post #22 of 24
I wouldn't worry at all. DS1 said like 3 words til 18/20mos and then spoke in phrases after that. DS2 is 16mos and the kid never shuts up ... knows at least 30 words and 10 or so phrases and constantly "talking". He signs too. Both are normal. DS1 is a VERY smart 7yo.... so you never really can tell this early. I think I'd rather enjoy a quieter child.
post #23 of 24
I agree there is a wide range of normal at this age. DD1 had maybe three words at that age and a couple of "signs" (its not the formal ones but she would make up signs for things she wanted but didn't have a word for). She didn't start linking two words together until very close to two. DD2 had probably 15ish at around that age and linked two and three words together. Shes 21 months now and had probably close to 50 words but she doesn't use them all the time. DD2 is at where DD1 was at when she was 2 1/2. Its suprising how different children can be even within the same family
post #24 of 24
I haven't read the other replies yet, just wanted to chime in with my experience.

My younger son (born at term) did very little babbling as a baby, and was pretty slow to pick up language. His comprehension was always great, he just didn't really show any interest in playing with sounds or words for a long time. He think he was around 16-18 months old before he started using any signs or words (and only a handful of those for a couple of months).

And then it seemed like he just jumped right into full, comprehensible sentences with mostly appropriate grammar. He just turned two and is probably ahead of the curve in terms of language ability at this point

I kept *telling* myself that he would get to things at his own pace, but there was still that little niggling worry about it that I knew was ridiculous but couldn't seem to shake.
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