I use Dawn, a fresh washcloth and warm water, and dry with a dry washcloth. Cheap ones from the store that you buy by the 20...and I wash and line-dry. Dip from the farm store. I suppose I could buy an udder wash, but the goats are such princesses, they won't go near dirt anyway.
I had two first fresheners this year. I started training them to the milkstand and milking at about 2 weeks in...and just "practice milking," working our way up. Eventually, I was getting a decent milking, and then milked just once a day until I weaned the kids. Now I'm milking twice a day and the kids are penned separately. Unfortunately, it looks like they'll be penned separately a good, long time. One of my does is incredibly maternal, and her doeling still wants to nurse. They've nursed through the fence, even.
