Even though you've done what I recommended, I'm glad I posted it because it might help someone else.
You know, it really sounds like you're done. The more you post, the less it seems like you're still stuck. That's great!
I think I am really done too. I know it would only continue to worsen if I let him back in. I feel so good about getting rid of as much as possible. All of it is gone now. I checked my computer and deleted anything from him or about him, except for my latest "why to stay away" list. All of his gifts and stuff are in the dumpster.
He will find a way to get in touch with me no matter what I do. He will either call my land line from a different phone or just show up at my door or email me at work or maybe even on here. I'll still be a little nervous for a while every time my phone rings or I go in or out of my apartment, but I will just call the police when he does it.