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My son wants to be a midwife :)

post #1 of 16
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I have been lurking here for sometime, but now that we are getting ready for our own homebirth, I actually have stuff to contribute!

My son (Asher) will be 4 in September. Asher has been watching "Born In Water" like 3 times a day since we got it. He loves watching the babies be born. He has that thing memorized. There is one point where one of the mothers says, "Honey! She's so cute!" and Asher always has to say it. If you haven't seen it, the movie is 6 different mamas giving birth in the water- just the last 3 minutes before the baby appears so it is pretty benign. The funniest is after one of the births, Asher always says, "Excuse me, Mama. That's the placenta." And he's right.

So Sunday night I was in the tub because I was so pregnant and achy. Asher woke up and wanted to see me. So I let him sit by me in the tub. I was kind of moaning because of the aches and he started rubbing my forehead and said, "Just breathe, Mama." I said I said, "That's so sweet, Asher!" He said, "I'm not Asher, I'm the midwife!" Then he pretended to check the fetal heart rate by putting his hand on my belly (in lieu of the doptone they use in the movie) and said, "Perfect! 131!"
post #2 of 16
that is so cute.
post #3 of 16
That is SOOO cute!!!!!! Thanks for sharing.

I once saw on here that someone makes a "midwife play kit" - made of fabric so it's soft - fetoscope & tape measure (I think there was one other piece, but I forget.) Sounds like he would love that!
post #4 of 16
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Shaina- OT: I would absolutely get your random Harry Potter references. Lay em on me, sista!

I wonder how to break it to Asher that 4 year old boys are still illegal to practice midwifery in Virginia...?
post #5 of 16
That is so cute and sweet!
post #6 of 16
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Originally Posted by ARG2003 View Post
Shaina- OT: I would absolutely get your random Harry Potter references. Lay em on me, sista!

I wonder how to break it to Asher that 4 year old boys are still illegal to practice midwifery in Virginia...?

Re OT... I thought the exact same thing...


Re 4 yo boys practicing midwifery... there is a story in BabyCatcher by Peggy Vincent (I think thats the book anyhow) where the baby's (slightly) older sibling ends up having to help... lol
post #7 of 16
So cute! My CNM with my first son's (hospital) birth was a man... and he was awesome! And there is a male doula in Colorado Springs who I hear is great too. Go Asher!!

My 12 yr old just told me he would like to encourage his wife to have their baby at home... and then added he would support her if she chose to birth at the hospital too.
For my future daughters in law (I have three awsome sons, maybe 4... I will know in Dec/Jan)... You are welcome.
post #8 of 16
that's SO cute!
post #9 of 16
Ds1 told everyone that he wanted to be a midwife when he was 2.5 yrs (while I was pregnant with my second). I think his career plans have changed at this point, but that doesn't mean that they don't both want to take over at every appt.
post #10 of 16
This is one of the cutest and sweetest things I've ever heard!
post #11 of 16
Adorable! My DD1, who was 4yo when DD3 was born, was convinced she was going to catch the baby! (She ended up sleeping through the birth, which was my preference.)
post #12 of 16
Good for him! I had a male midwife and he was awesome. (Special Beginnings at Arnold, MD)
post #13 of 16
There is a male HB MW near me that is well respected in the community.
post #14 of 16
LOVE it! My boys are so sold on homebirthing and natural birth. After our 3rd was born, the older two were *often* on my bed, playing "midwife," taking turns being the midwife and the mama. The funny thing was, they'd missed seeing that birth because it went super fast at the end (and they were out with Grandma). But I guess once the pool was taken down, the bed was the next obvious choice.
post #15 of 16
such a sweet story! i read it to my husband and we both loved it! thanks for sharing.
post #16 of 16
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Thanks girls! I love my little dude!

And good info about male MWs. My sister was asking and I had no idea, really.
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