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Originally Posted by Jayray 
I just feel like the more prepared you are and the more information you have, the better you'll be able to advocate for yourself and feel confident about your birth.
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Yes, true. But
misinformation could make things worse. They could fill her head with crazy ideas like it's dangerous to eat & drink in labor, your baby could die if you're not hooked up to EFM continuously, there's nothing you can do to reduce the risk of tears & it's bad to push without having your membranes first broken. & that's just off the top of my head...
And nearly all of those things I've heard directly or indirectly from hospital staff before - so I don't think it's far-fetched to consider it likely that the classes might say they same.
So I'm inclined to think that a class at a bad hospital would be worse than no class & only books.
All that being said, not all hospitals are bad & not all hospital classes are bad. A friend of mine took the class at a local hospital that is 'eh' - not AWFUL, but not a place any of us NCB people recommend. She said it was actually quite pro-NCB! They offered coping mechanisms, talked about the risks of epidural, and didn't just act like, "OK, and here's what will happen when you get your epidural."
If she's someone who feels she can learn well from books & enjoys reading, I say don't even bother. But if she wants a class (or for her DH) I recommend seeing if there's any way she can find out more about the class in advance. & if she goes, give her red flags to look out for (like the above) & WALK OUT IMMEDIATELY before they can poison her mind with that

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ETA: DH & I took Bradley, but we did go to the hospital for the newborn care class. It was only one evening, maybe 2 hours. That was good, worth attending.
I also attended the BFing class - was about 90 min although she ended early. Not very good. Just not enough info! More than half the class was on the benefits of BFing. Uh, ok, that's great - but I've already decided to BF, which is why I'm here, so let's get on with teaching me HOW to do it. & that is where it was woefully inadequate.