Originally Posted by justKate
Thanks for your responses. We talked more about it and he said (more eloquently that I'm putting it here) that he doesn't want some weirdo getting off on it and seeking out a child to victimize.
I'm not sure where he's getting that, but we sort of agreed to disagree on it, and he'll just have to figure it out when they're out alone.
So, your dh sounds like a very loving father, and a protective father. Thats great!
That being said, how on earth would a man victimize your dd while he's changing her? I'm pretty sure, based on the info we have, that theres no way in HE!! he'd let anyone touch her, and if someone passes by and looks, well, women look at my ds's genitals in bathroom too (I mean, mostly the coo at him and tell me he's fabulous, but he's hanging out for all the world to see for a few seconds in there too you know?). Someone seeing her genitals isn't going to victimize her, that would take your dh allowing someone to touch her - which he wouldn't do, so no worries right?