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post #61 of 98
8/27/10 at 2:27am
Oh, mama! I am so sorry for your loss.


Jenne
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post #62 of 98
8/27/10 at 7:43am
I am so sorry for your loss.
May you and your family find peace and healing.
post #63 of 98
8/27/10 at 8:15am
I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family peace and healing.
post #64 of 98
8/27/10 at 8:28am
I am so sorry.
post #65 of 98
8/27/10 at 8:32am
oh my. I am so sorry for your loss, mama.
post #66 of 98
8/27/10 at 8:36am
post #67 of 98
8/27/10 at 2:11pm
I'm so sorry for you loss. But I'm also glad that you had those minutes with Jack before the chaos of the hospital. I wish you peace and healing, Mama.
post #68 of 98
8/27/10 at 2:29pm
I cried and cried reading your story. The pain in your words is so real and I can't being to imagine how you must be feeling. In some small way, I feel like he gave you a last gift by being born in the car so that you could have him in your arms for just that small amount of time, rather than being wisked away immediately in the hospital.

Please know you are deeply in my thoughts as is your family and your sweet angel son.
post #69 of 98
8/27/10 at 5:19pm
I am sorry for your loss Laura. I wish healing to you and your family.
post #70 of 98
8/27/10 at 5:40pm
Laura, I am so, so sorry to hear this!!!

Many hugs & prayers for you sweetie!
post #71 of 98
8/27/10 at 6:37pm
I'm so sorry for your loss.
post #72 of 98
8/27/10 at 7:02pm
I am so sorry.

I work with a local prenatal/infant loss group. (All the mamas volunteer) I would suggest you have them take the photos, and whatever other remembrances they do. And ask that they seal them in an envelope. Take it home, put it away where you know where it is, but wont run into it everyday. You may or may not want it in the future. Or you son may want remembrances of his brother when he is older. Or your other children yet to be may want to see a picture of him. If it is not for you, you can just not open it, or give it to your son when he is grown. But you can never go back and get those photos re-taken if you don't get them. I know MANY women who didn't want them at the time, who treasure those photos now. I'm not saying that will be you, but it might?
post #73 of 98
8/27/10 at 9:53pm
I am so sorry mama. My thoughts are with you and your family.
post #74 of 98
8/27/10 at 11:08pm
words can't tell you how much my heart goes out to you.
post #75 of 98
8/28/10 at 3:44am
I'm so sorry that your loss was made more difficult by a unsupportive and distressing hospital stay. I hope time brings you peace and healing.
post #76 of 98
8/29/10 at 6:41pm
I am so sorry for your loss.
post #77 of 98
9/3/10 at 5:23pm
I am so sorry for your loss.
post #78 of 98
9/3/10 at 6:17pm
I'm so sorry.
post #79 of 98
9/5/10 at 9:47pm
I'm very sorry.
post #80 of 98
9/6/10 at 12:50pm
Oh Laura, my heart goes out to you. You probably don't remember me but I have had so much admiration for you, for years. I'm so sorry for your loss and for the way that you were treated at the hospital. My thoughts are with you.
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