Omg i just found a something horrific WARNING GRAPHIC - Page 2

[Purple Sage]

[beckyand3littlemonsters]

[Ellp]

I'm so sorry for what you saw.

Please though, may I respectfully ask that you post a warning in your post title and in your first post? This type of post was NOT what I would have wanted to see today.

[sosurreal09]

Originally Posted by Ellp

I'm so sorry for what you saw.

Please though, may I respectfully ask that you post a warning in your post title and in your first post? This type of post was NOT what I would have wanted to see today.

oh im sorry i didnt mean to ruin you're day. im not sure how to change the title/ put in a warning. anyone want to help?

[kittynurse]

Originally Posted by Ellp

I'm so sorry for what you saw.

Please though, may I respectfully ask that you post a warning in your post title and in your first post? This type of post was NOT what I would have wanted to see today.

Are you saying "OMG I just found a dead girl on the side of the road" wasn't enough warning or that she should have used a different title? Not being snarky, just trying to clarify for the OP.

Originally Posted by sosurreal09

oh im sorry i didnt mean to ruin you're day. im not sure how to change the title/ put in a warning. anyone want to help?

Go to your OP, click edit and then click advanced and it should let you change your title.

Martha

[Viola]

Originally Posted by sosurreal09

i feel like i am mourning for her...
i was "talking to her" last night like i always did with my mom after she passed. i feel a lot better now that i told her how sorry i am this happened to her and i wish i had known her because perhaps i could have helped her in some way...ect ect

I think this is a good response. This is how I react when I hear of a bad story of the murder of a child, and I just wish I could have known and could have helped.

It feels like you could have done something, but you don't know about it until it is too late, so of course, you couldn't. Very heartbreaking for you, I'm so sorry.

[Ellp]

Originally Posted by kittynurse

Are you saying "OMG I just found a dead girl on the side of the road" wasn't enough warning or that she should have used a different title? Not being snarky, just trying to clarify for the OP.

Just a "Found on the side of the road, WARNING: Graphic" title would've been good.

A few years ago I witnessed a drag race on my busy residential street where someone got hit as they were crossing the road with their family. The dad or uncle got hit and it was pretty obvious they were done with this life. The screams of the woman and kids haunt me still.

[sosurreal09]

well my apologies i wrote it just after it happened so i wasnt thinking about how the title may effect someone. all changed now.

[MichaelsSahm]

Originally Posted by Ellp

Just a "Found on the side of the road, WARNING: Graphic" title would've been good.

A few years ago I witnessed a drag race on my busy residential street where someone got hit as they were crossing the road with their family. The dad or uncle got hit and it was pretty obvious they were done with this life. The screams of the woman and kids haunt me still.

OMG How horrific!!!! I am so sorry you witnessed that!

[Ann-Marita]

Originally Posted by sosurreal09

i dont have any. thats safe while BFING?

Rescue Remedy is a very safe product! You can dilute it, if you feel that four drops of alcohol would be too much. Put 1oz of water in a small bottle, add four drops of RR, and refrigerate. Then use that solution - four drops is a dose - whenever you need. You can add it to a drink and sip it over the course of the day (or down it right away if you're thirsty), or you can take it straight.

I'm glad you are feeling better.

[Caittune]

Oh my goodness.

[WindyCityMom]

I'm so sorry, for you and the girl both.

Hugs to you and peace with you mama.

[lolar2]

I'm so sorry you had to witness that.

[Queen of Cups]

My husband and I found a dead body several years ago, it was terribly upsetting. A man had hung himself and was hanging outside of his apartment building facing the street. We were on our way to a restaurant and told the manager who called the cops. When we came out of the restaurant they'd blocked off the street while removing the body. I was so upset for days and days afterward. I'm so sorry you're dealing with a similar situation.

[sosurreal09]

i have been praying alot to find peace with this and it has helped me. i dont think it's something i will ever just get over though. just a little more traumatization....

[myjo]

If you find that the trauma is ongoing, and you can't seem to get past it, there is a therapy called EMDR which is very good for helping people process trauma. I'm really sorry you had to see that, and I hope you're able to heal from it!

[Dr.Worm]

I'm so sorry

[sosurreal09]

thank you

[SamuraiMom]

Originally Posted by leahd

Is there somewhere you could volunteer some time to help some other kids who are homeless or addicts? Maybe she was brought into your life for a reason. Or something else positive that could come out of her death and your experience?

I think this is an excellent idea, on top of the other ways that you are processing mama I wish I could give you a real hug.