Well we have begun a list, but I'm working on broadening it, not narrowing it down
We have agreed on either Alice or Willow for a girl (possible middle name Barbara-Lee after my Nana who is Barbara, and my mom and I who have Firstname-Lee).
I finally got dh to agree on 2 boys names so those possibilities are Alistair (derived from Alice, who was his grandma) and Kennedy (derived from his grandpa who was Kenneth & also is dh's middle name). I LOVE Marvin for a middle name for a boy (ds's name for the baby while in utero) and dh says it's a possibility, otherwise middle names might be Murray Robert or Robert Murray (our dads).
Both my other kids have 2 middle names so this one may, unless it's Marvin then we may just go with one. Marvin's really growing on me, but I still think I won't do it for a first name.
Still looking for a couple more options, the name won't be decided until after he/she is born. Names are so hard! Ds' name was picked out about 6 months before he was conceived
Dd's name was the only one we agreed on during pregnancy and we didn't lock it down until she was 4 days old cuz we just weren't sure but we didn't have any other names we liked! Fortunately she is TOTALLY a Bridget, in fact she's Bit because that's how she said her name when she started to talk, Bitbit.