Originally Posted by annie2186
What religion is that? I remember reading about that in TCOYF - how some women miss their fertile time if they O really early and have to abstain 7 days after their AF
Oh, we don't do that! That's Orthodox Judaism (maybe not just orthodox) they wait until 7 days AFTER Af stops. We just wait 7 days TOTAL from the first day of AF, and avoid on days of spotting. So for them, theirs winds up being EVERY month of waiting out the entire AF plus 7 days after. Ours is 7 days from the first day of AF. I was just saying that it is going to be at least 12 days because we haven't DTD in several days and now I am spotting so it will be that long since our last DTD. Hope that makes sense. Anyway, we are Messianic.
Originally Posted by jeninejessica
So... I have no clue what's going on now guys. I went and bought a test, and even a FRER, because dollarama was OUT, and the only other cheap ones were blue dye... so... I planned on taking it tomorrow morning, but let's get real, it was teasing me, so I took it tonight. 12dpo, I expected AF today. It looked stark white, and I honestly sat there kind of shocked as I'd worked myself up to fully believing it was going to be positive.
And then when I grabbed it again later, there's a very faint line on it. But it definately showed up AFTER the time limit, I stopped looking at it at 10 minutes, and went back two hours later, so sometime in between. So my brain keeps saying "EVAP!!!" But myheart keeps coming up with reasons why it makes sense it would have taken so long-- ie it was late in the day, not FMU, I'm only 12dpo not 14, maybe I didn't get very much pee on the test (it was a poas)... I'm driving myself nuts. And I don't have any easy way of going to get a test tomorrow either, other than flat out telling DH. Gah.Suuuuuppppper faint line
It's funny because until I started looking at everyone elses tests, I wouldn't have even remotely seen a line here. But now I do. I just need to remind myself that after the time limit should NOT get my hopes up.
Then again... going on officially 13dpo now here for me, and after some dry days I'm copiously creamy again, white/yellow no pink, and I don't -feel- like I'm going to start anymore, and no temp drop so far. I guess we'll see tomorrow. *shrugs* there's nothing really else I can do, but I keep holding up the test again trying to make it speak to me.
I don't want to be the bearer of bad news but I have had the same thing happen several times before and not been pregnant. I think it might be an evap.
I HOPE it's not, but I just had to throw that out there.
Originally Posted by Kindermama
Guys, I tested this morning and the FR Digital was a BFN. I used another IC this morning and it had the same line from yesterday. I read all over the internet that you can get pinkish lines with an IC and not be pregnant. I don't think I am pregnant! I'm confused about all the cramping though- it's so not normal for me. I did take a homeopathic remedy earlier this week for the migraine so maybe it's related to that. My bbs are still sore but maybe again, the remedy is influencing my hormonal system somehow. Oh well. I'm glad I didn't get as excited as you guys
I don't think I'm going to test in the future unless I actually miss AF. All these so called lines are tripping me up!
AFM: Still no AF.
Oh, and I wanted to vent for a second. I am SOOOOOOO frustrated with DH right now it's not even funny. I hate how he is expecting me to do things that he would not and there's nothing I can do about it! (more on that later)
Also, I ordered this curriculum and I never got a confirmation. That was in late August. I call, email etc. and finally get someone. They'll send it out right away. Still nothing, so I call again. Nothing. I email again. Finally I get an email from USPS saying they shipped it out on Sept 15. It arrived today and it's the WRONG curriculum! I am SO tired of calling, emailing etc. How hard can this be?! Ugh! Not having the best day today.