Dtd? - Page 2

[expat-mama]

Oh well, I'm sure he appreciated that you tried. It'll be easier next time Ihope.

This weekend is our wedding anniversary, dh already gave me one of my gifts a 1.5 hour massage. So i'm going to get my massage, have a couple of glasses of wine and give it a go! Wish me luck!

[craft_media_hero]

Good luck, and happy anniversary!!

[chiromommy]

We sent the kids to the inlaws for a couple of hours under the ruse of errands needing to be done I wanted no interruptions so we could get through the weirdness. I was surprisingly well lubricated (which concerns me because I don't want my periods to arrive yet) and comfortable. He has had the flu for a couple of weeks so he was trying to keep from coughing, but it went pretty well all in all. And that awkward first time is out of the way. It was very much like when we were 18 and in the back of his parents' car - a little new and fumbly

[Theoretica]

Sigh. Am I the only one with NO interest whatsoever? I think my brain sees all the kids nd thinks...THAT activity is what got all these (delightful) bundles to arrive in the first place! Do it MORE? NOW?? NEVAHHHH!

Ahem.

[Happeesupermom]

Originally Posted by Theoretica

Sigh. Am I the only one with NO interest whatsoever? I think my brain sees all the kids nd thinks...THAT activity is what got all these (delightful) bundles to arrive in the first place! Do it MORE? NOW?? NEVAHHHH!

Ahem.

I don't have any desire ATM either! I was wondering if I was the only one! LOL

DS is now 8 wks & DH has been "showing interest" for over a month... but I'm just NOT INTERESTED in DTD right now! It's not that I'm afraid it might be painful or weird... I'm just not interested.

Is that normal?

[Theoretica]

I think so. I mean, I'm supposed to be all 'awww he thinks I'm thexy' but really I'm all "ohhhhh he's POKING me AGAIIIIIIIN".

Aherm.

[5gifts]

I'm right there with you! Its going to turn into the big white elephant in the room LOL! I have zero interest....I'm sure he's just being patient for me to give out the go ahead vibes...but I'm just hoping it doesn't come up in conversation soon. Oh well, with 6 kids...3 of them sleeping in our bed full time, and 12 wk old that is in arms 24/7.....not much 'oppertunity' around here

[~PurityLake~]

Originally Posted by Theoretica

I think so. I mean, I'm supposed to be all 'awww he thinks I'm thexy' but really I'm all "ohhhhh he's POKING me AGAIIIIIIIN".

Aherm.

I still feel that way, five years later.

[expat-mama]

We did it!
:nana
It was our anniversary celebration evening so the pressure was kind of on. It really helped me to be supremely relaxed (an hour of professional aromatherapy massage, lovely dinner, chocolate semifreddo for dessert, wine, the charming company of DH and a break from DS for a few hours). I think the massage and the wine really put me in the mood!
Anyway, it was a bit painful at first but after that bow-chicka-bow-bow! It was FANTASTIC!

[craft_media_hero]

Right on, expat!

Your post made me lol

Dh and I finally dtd. I hurt a little at first but then was pretty nice.

I dont really have any interest right now, either . . .

Anybody thinking abt family planning? We used the pull out and hope that constant bf-ing suppresses ovulation method. Probably need smth more reliable.

[megviolet]

heh heh you ladies are all so humerous lol
we dtd for the first time last week... 8wks pp . i'm not super interested but i kind of wanted to get the first time out of the way. It was... good. Not bad at all. NO pain or swelling afterward, and if it hadn't gone on for so long i wouldn't have had any discomfort during either (I told him 'quickie' but he didn't listen lmao)
after DD 3yrs ago it was about 4months before we could do it due to too much tightness for me :/

finding the time is hard, by the time both girsl are asleep i'm asleep too!