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My 3 yo is SO tired. Help!

post #1 of 6
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Hi there!

My poor 3yo DS.

He's always been a pretty good night sleeper, and early on, even a good napper.

But at 18 months, we moved him out of our bed (none of us were sleeping well anymore, he was too big and starfish-y) with no fuss into his own room. About 3 months later, all naps pretty much disappeared, barring when he's sick.

But this week, he was sick, and even the trick of putting him in our bed and watching a video with some milk didn't lull him into rest.

The poor kid is exhausted. Even when he's not sick, he's so whiney, regularly rubbing his eyes, and not processing information as well as he does when rested. He's defiant about food and eating which only adds to the cycle.

I will admit that we haven't been the best at encouraging him to nap better . Once we realized that no nap meant a super easy 6:30-7pm bedtime and sleeping through the night, we gave up on it pretty easily. He does get an hour or two of mid-day "quiet time"(video, book reading, quiet self play) pretty much every day to at least be chill.

But now he's getting up really early in the morning(5-6am), which is reasonable considering his early bedtime and amount of sleep he needs. Which just makes him more tired earlier in the day...it is such a bad cycle and I honestly do not know where to start in breaking it.

It seems like a super weird time to reintroduce a nap when most kids are dropping theirs. I am going to try to be better about morning and afternoon exercise for him, which I think will help, but am open to any other suggestions. He's such a sweet, awesome and smart boy when rested. When not...ick...its just been tough for all of us around here lately!

TIA!
post #2 of 6
We have that too. I found reading the book "Sleepless in America" to be very helpful in understanding how to make things easier for kids to get enough sleep.

Something that has helped for us is to have a very consistent daytime routine, including a dedicated rest time, laying down in the bed, at the same time every day. DD doesn't fall asleep unless she's sick, but just having the rest time seems to help with the meltdowns at other times of the day. If her brother is asleep, I usually rest with her.
post #3 of 6
Could he be anemic?
post #4 of 6
My dd was an early nap dropper. . . but for quite awhile would end up throwing down 1-2 big naps or early (1-2 hours early) bedtimes a month for awhile. It kinda just happened naturally for her, and seemed to make sense so we'd just go with it whenever she seemed like she was needing to do that.

Daytime rest is a good idea too, but maybe picking one day a week where you do something to 'encourage' a nap more would be enough extra sleep for him right now (if a daily nap would be too disruptive and you're not sure he needs that much extra sleep per day. . . ) Making sure regular activity & enough food during the day are good to look over - could be he sometimes needs another mini-meal or something too.
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We have that too. I found reading the book "Sleepless in America" to be very helpful in understanding how to make things easier for kids to get enough sleep.

Something that has helped for us is to have a very consistent daytime routine, including a dedicated rest time, laying down in the bed, at the same time every day. DD doesn't fall asleep unless she's sick, but just having the rest time seems to help with the meltdowns at other times of the day. If her brother is asleep, I usually rest with her.
to all this!
post #6 of 6
Thread Starter 
Ok, I just ordered sleepless in america. just reading the reviews I am already realizing that it will be able to help. My husband is a horrible sleeper and it affects the whole household. I have a newborn, so my sleep is not nearly at what it needs to be. I'm sure we're not helping him much. Poor guy. Hoping the book and the fall schedule with preschool and activities will help us get back in the groove.

He isn't anemic. We do WIC, so they test his iron levels regularly.

Thanks so much for the advice and support!
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