I think the rest of us are babbling in our Sept 09 thread going on elsewhere.. and now a lot of us have moved to the Toddlers forum (scary!). You might want to check there.
But.. for me, DS's bday is next week. I'm still torn between the, "this is so silly"... and "I want!". I've made him a crown (cardboard and felt WITH straps) so he'll have a hat. My mom wants a cake, with sugar, for the attendees - which now seem abt 20 people. I'm still fighting her on sugar for the baby. I've got a few great recipes for not-so-sugary cakes, so he gets his own, topped with whipped cream... and can make a great mess of it. But also something the other kids can eat and enjoy as well.
Gifts... we are staying with what he is doing right now. Lots of puzzles. He's got the rings mastered, so, smaller rings. My mom bought him a vacuum cleaner/popper thing. While I might say, "argh" to the big plasticky thing... he'll LOVE it. He'll absolutely love it. Today she brought him a ball with sticky sides - he's never had a ball before, a Big ball. and the sticky sides, it was enough to grasp in his hands and force him to throw. Certainly not there yet, but he'll get there.
DS loves to get into DSS's room (who's 4) and work his Trucks. Especially those that have a remote control (on a cord). I think, because he wants to eat the remote and play with the cord. Not so much that he understands the connection. So I'm not focusing on trucks, yet. Still, puzzles and balls.