We had my son evaluated by the school district in May, and the IEP was in June. The team decided that the best placement for my 5 year old was in the SDC preschool, because of motor and social deficits, low muscle tone and nonverbal learning disorder. The fact that he was still in diapers at school was also an issue.
I also had applied to a local charter school, but was waitlisted. The team agreed that if he got admitted there, it would also be a good placement for him. If the diaper issue was resolved.
Over the summer, I worked hard to get rid of the diapers, and at this time, he is fully trained for daytime. Which is great!
And he also got to the top of the charter school waitlist, and started there on Wednesday of this week. During the recess of the first day, I asked the teacher how my son was doing in the classroom and she said "Great!" I wanted to tell the teacher about my son's special needs, and she seemed receptive to having him sit up front, etc.
At drop off time the next day, the school principal was very upset that she hadn't heard about my son's IEP, and that they wouldn't hadn't have admitted him if they knew. The principal said that she felt like my son wasn't working out, but didn't say that they were kicking him out.
This morning at drop off, there were no comments from the teacher or principal. But I did get a call from the school psychologist who was in charge of my son's IEP team, and she told me that my son wasn't working out for the school. She wanted me to try him at the SDC preschool for a week to see if he did better.
The main issues are that my son had a very minor tantrum at snack, because his snack fell into the dirt, and had to be thrown away and that he is not readily lining up with the other children and needs a reminder to join the group. To me, these don't seem like huge red flags that he will not be successful in the classroom, and he seems to really be enjoying the new environment.
The school psychologist feels like the school will be kicking him out any day, and maybe today. She also told me that in California, kindergarten is not mandatory and that they are not required to serve him.
I am planning on writing a letter to request a new IEP this afternoon, and hand delivering it to the District Office. Do any of the wise special needs parents have any advice for me? TIA!
I also had applied to a local charter school, but was waitlisted. The team agreed that if he got admitted there, it would also be a good placement for him. If the diaper issue was resolved.
Over the summer, I worked hard to get rid of the diapers, and at this time, he is fully trained for daytime. Which is great!
And he also got to the top of the charter school waitlist, and started there on Wednesday of this week. During the recess of the first day, I asked the teacher how my son was doing in the classroom and she said "Great!" I wanted to tell the teacher about my son's special needs, and she seemed receptive to having him sit up front, etc.
At drop off time the next day, the school principal was very upset that she hadn't heard about my son's IEP, and that they wouldn't hadn't have admitted him if they knew. The principal said that she felt like my son wasn't working out, but didn't say that they were kicking him out.
This morning at drop off, there were no comments from the teacher or principal. But I did get a call from the school psychologist who was in charge of my son's IEP team, and she told me that my son wasn't working out for the school. She wanted me to try him at the SDC preschool for a week to see if he did better.
The main issues are that my son had a very minor tantrum at snack, because his snack fell into the dirt, and had to be thrown away and that he is not readily lining up with the other children and needs a reminder to join the group. To me, these don't seem like huge red flags that he will not be successful in the classroom, and he seems to really be enjoying the new environment.
The school psychologist feels like the school will be kicking him out any day, and maybe today. She also told me that in California, kindergarten is not mandatory and that they are not required to serve him.
I am planning on writing a letter to request a new IEP this afternoon, and hand delivering it to the District Office. Do any of the wise special needs parents have any advice for me? TIA!












