We got bad news at our transfer today. PGD came back at the last minute and of 11 embryos, 0 were genetically sound. For what it's worth, our RE was absolutely shocked. In his words, he said he was blindsided and did not expect this at all.
I've had one miscarriage and one chemical (and a few other suspected chemicals), so this may have been going on for longer than we ever suspected.
Now we pick up the pieces.
Our RE said we had a 15% chance of success at best with my eggs. It seems that my chromosomes are very sticky.
I think we will do a second cycle at the end of January with my eggs, then go to donor eggs.
Our RE suggested donor eggs almost immediately today. He is not optimistic about our chances (without donor eggs).
DH and I are stunned and disappointed. I don't know what to do with myself right now--this was not in our plans.
We feel like we haven't even gotten the chance to play ball.
The silver lining is that my DH's brother has been through the donor egg process and can help show us the way, if need be. We have the same RE.