When I took my LO home from the hospital, I set myself pretty low standards for housework, cooking, etc. I had a newborn to look after, and that was the priority. That worked fine. Then, as the months went by, we got into a nice routine of putting her in the carrier while I puttered, cleaning, preparing meals, etc. She was perfectly content and I got a lot done. Now though? At five months, her patience with the carrier is wearing thin. But OK, she likes being on the ground, practicing her I'm Almost Ready To Crawl moves...but ONLY if I'm right there. In fact, she doesn't like me out of her sight these days. Even when I leave her with her dad (not even really leaving her, just leaving the room) she seems a little unsure of that arrangement. Things around the house are not getting done, and it's starting to get to me. Also, we'll be moving in 6 weeks, and it's my job to pack the boxes, so I've started now -- I can see this is not something I'll be able to motor through in 2 days. She's frightened of the noise the packing tape makes. Anyone have any BTDT suggestions? I bought a backpack to put her in thinking she might like it better than the carrier, but she's still too young for it. It's probably really bad to try her in it early, isn't it?
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5 months old baby & housework
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9/5/10 at 12:38pm
I keep hearing that babies consolidate sleep by this age, but not mine. She still just cat naps through the day. It is a 20 minute window though, so I can (and do) do things then. On the one hand, it is sweet. I know that in the big scheme of things, this time that she really loves and needs me this way is fleeting. On the other hand, the house is becoming really chaotic, and I had toast and cereal for dinner last night!
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I got a play yard and put that in the kitchen so he can putter around in there with some toys while I chat with him and get dishes taken care of, etc. Or I pull his high chair into the kitchen and sit him there with some toys on the tray. (Since it's the kitchen I also have lots of non-toy toys on hand like measuring spoons, spatulas, etc.)
Also right around that age he got really excited about using the jumparoo (bouncy thing you hang from the doorframe). He would happily bounce in that and chatter with me while I cooked, etc.
As long as he could see me and we kept chatting, he was fine. This saved my sanity after he stopped being happy about being in the moby wrap.
I got a play yard and put that in the kitchen so he can putter around in there with some toys while I chat with him and get dishes taken care of, etc. Or I pull his high chair into the kitchen and sit him there with some toys on the tray. (Since it's the kitchen I also have lots of non-toy toys on hand like measuring spoons, spatulas, etc.)
Also right around that age he got really excited about using the jumparoo (bouncy thing you hang from the doorframe). He would happily bounce in that and chatter with me while I cooked, etc.
As long as he could see me and we kept chatting, he was fine. This saved my sanity after he stopped being happy about being in the moby wrap.
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i agree with what other people were saying about moving her around with you. i've never really liked wearing my 6 mo old in the house... she's squirmy and heavy and too warm. i have a "station" basically in every room and we move from room to room. the jolly jumper is great because it's in the hallway so she can see me while i do laundry, we have a play mat in the living room with my computer and sewing machine, and high chair in the kitchen for cooking and dishes and we tend to just rotate.
also, i suggest hiring movers. last time i moved, it was the first time ever with movers, and man, what a revelation. EVERYTHING was packed and in the moving van in under 5 hours. it would have taken me days and days to do it on my own.
also, i suggest hiring movers. last time i moved, it was the first time ever with movers, and man, what a revelation. EVERYTHING was packed and in the moving van in under 5 hours. it would have taken me days and days to do it on my own.
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9/5/10 at 7:56pm
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9/5/10 at 10:20pm
I would have gone completely bonkers trying to figure out how to pack an entire house with a 5 month old.
DD's a relatively good-natured baby, but she naps in 40-minute spurts and didn't really start playing by herself for awhile until 9 months or so. I guess I could have cleaned house during her micro-naps, but I always felt that was ME time, and rarely did more than load the dishwasher or tidy up a little.
What helped was having my mom come over, and we alternated amusing DD with cleaning/washing/laundering/picking up something. Or I'd wait till DH came home and have him feed DD while I cooked, then he would take her for a long walk while I tidied up.
Even today, with DD going on 11 months, it's rare that I do much more than put on a load of laundry or empty the dishwasher or tidy up during the day. I just try to keep the house looking neat and ignore the dust or the sheets that need to be changed. Eventually the stars align and I get to it!
DD's a relatively good-natured baby, but she naps in 40-minute spurts and didn't really start playing by herself for awhile until 9 months or so. I guess I could have cleaned house during her micro-naps, but I always felt that was ME time, and rarely did more than load the dishwasher or tidy up a little.What helped was having my mom come over, and we alternated amusing DD with cleaning/washing/laundering/picking up something. Or I'd wait till DH came home and have him feed DD while I cooked, then he would take her for a long walk while I tidied up.
Even today, with DD going on 11 months, it's rare that I do much more than put on a load of laundry or empty the dishwasher or tidy up during the day. I just try to keep the house looking neat and ignore the dust or the sheets that need to be changed. Eventually the stars align and I get to it!
Thanks everyone! I did set up the Jolly Jumper yesterday & managed to get the dishes done in that time. She was less happy to hang out in the pack n play though. Interestingly, I did finally figure out my Baby Panda wrap (one long strip of material involving origami-ing the baby into it) and she was much more content in that one than the structured Eddie Bauer one.
I am going to consider movers, if only just for the loading and unloading (doesn't help me, but it will help my husband, who is the designated loader/unloader).
Oh, and Spiralshell, I was inspired by your sig & put on Simon & Garfunkel while I did those dishes yesterday. I'm sure that helped too
I am going to consider movers, if only just for the loading and unloading (doesn't help me, but it will help my husband, who is the designated loader/unloader).
Oh, and Spiralshell, I was inspired by your sig & put on Simon & Garfunkel while I did those dishes yesterday. I'm sure that helped too

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I totally agree that the jumperoo was our best friend around that age, DS would spend a good amount of time in his and he loved it, sadly we are at that stage where I think I'll be putting it in the attic - we're more interested in walking than jumping these days
I am glad you posted this question b/c I'm always trying to figure out how to get things done around the house and we are thinking about moving within the next year and I have no idea how I'll manage the packing. Do you have anyone you could have come over and help out? Many hands makes little work! And I know all us Mommas could use an army, lol! Good luck to you!
I am glad you posted this question b/c I'm always trying to figure out how to get things done around the house and we are thinking about moving within the next year and I have no idea how I'll manage the packing. Do you have anyone you could have come over and help out? Many hands makes little work! And I know all us Mommas could use an army, lol! Good luck to you!
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9/6/10 at 11:51pm
I don't think it's too early for a backpack if you are both comfortable in it. I bought a Beco, it has an internal harness, plus an infant harness, which lifts her up if she is still a bit little. I feel very secure swinging it onto my back and some days its the only reason I can get anything done.
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9/7/10 at 12:29pm
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9/13/10 at 2:22pm
I , too, love to put my 6 month old into his BeBe Pod chair with his Boppy around the chair to elevate the toys. I also put him in his high chair while I cook or tidy the kitchen.
I break my tasks down into small chucks and get them done as I can. Most of my "me" time is sporadic as best but this will pass with time.
I break my tasks down into small chucks and get them done as I can. Most of my "me" time is sporadic as best but this will pass with time.
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9/13/10 at 4:13pm
I hope this isn't a thread hijack, but my babe is also about 5 months, and although I could probably get a lot done with her in the carrier or the bouncer or one of the seats that she loves, I don't. I hate housework, and I'm terrible at it. But our house is a mess, I can't afford to hire someone right now, and all of my energy/ time seems to go towards either getting the baby and I enough sleep to keep me sane, or getting work done (I am self employed and work from home, and that has been a big challenge since she was born).
But reading this is making me realize that I don't have long before it becomes impossible, and all of my energy goes towards chasing a toddler. Ack!! I'm getting scared now!
But reading this is making me realize that I don't have long before it becomes impossible, and all of my energy goes towards chasing a toddler. Ack!! I'm getting scared now!
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I hope this isn't a thread hijack, but my babe is also about 5 months, and although I could probably get a lot done with her in the carrier or the bouncer or one of the seats that she loves, I don't. I hate housework, and I'm terrible at it. But our house is a mess, I can't afford to hire someone right now, and all of my energy/ time seems to go towards either getting the baby and I enough sleep to keep me sane, or getting work done (I am self employed and work from home, and that has been a big challenge since she was born).
But reading this is making me realize that I don't have long before it becomes impossible, and all of my energy goes towards chasing a toddler. Ack!! I'm getting scared now! |
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I sing to keep Leyla calm when she gets sick of being in one place. I have a terrible voice but the kid loves hearing me sing. So when she's in her bouncy chair and starts fussing and I still have a mountain of dishes left I sing
. Her favorites are skin-na-marinky-dinky-dink, itsy bitsy spider, and a Cuban song, Aruru mi nino. It only buys me 10 minutes tops but as I'm sure you know 10 minutes can help.
. Her favorites are skin-na-marinky-dinky-dink, itsy bitsy spider, and a Cuban song, Aruru mi nino. It only buys me 10 minutes tops but as I'm sure you know 10 minutes can help.
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