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How can you tell they are done eating solids?

post #1 of 8
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I feel a little stupid asking this.
DS is 11 months old today. He nurses very frequently-- always has. He's a big fat dumpling of a boy. We didn't start solids til 7 months and he was very slow to really get into food. Now he's into it. We do a little pureed stuff but he mostly wants to feed himself. We are a vegetarian family. I feed him solids 3x daily. Sometimes it's easy to tell that he's done- but lately it's harder. Like dinner tonight. I gave him a few happy bellies organic green puffs while I got everything together. Then he and I split 2 pluots. I sauteed spinach in olive oil and blended it with cottage cheese. He was not really into it, but had maybe 6 spoonfuls? Then he ate black beans. Tons and tons. I mean, like more than I can eat. He loves them, and often his poop will be full of bean skins (sorry tmi) I feel like he would gave eaten them forever. So I decided to give him something else ....He had half a slice of cheddar cheese. And then he had 2 squares of nori. I gave him a little rice off of my plate, and some corn.
He cleared his tray. He was eating for almost an hour!!!!
My question is - should I have kept offering beans even though he ate so so many already?
I have been playing solids by ear and trying to give him balanced organic foods- mixing binding food with more fibery ones to keep him regular etc... My mother (who never breastfed us past 4 months old) told me that hes hungry, when I told her not to feed him more bread at an Italian resturant. At the time I knew she was wrong. He was fine and happy... But on nights like tonight when I control the portion in a sense instead of 100% following his lead I start to wonder....

How do you handle "portions" with your babes- ESP when feeding finger foods?
post #2 of 8
I know when my 12mo DD is full because she'll either start handing the food back to me (one piece at a time) or she'll wipe it all on the floor. I usually just give her 2-3 pieces at a time until she stops eating. Some days she eats a lot of solids and other days she throws it all on the floor. So long as your LO is still nursing there's not much to worry about with rounded meals or balance. Have fun!
post #3 of 8
I've had to be careful with how much to feed too soon. My oldest would have eaten and eaten at first but I knew her sensitive system needed me to take it slow. As far as the beans go-I think changing it up is good. Too much of a good thing can be bad. DD2 ended up with a fructose intolerance because I let her eat as much fruit as she wanted. The GI dr was floored by how much fruit she ate. I thought it was okay cause it was fruit. It's not like she was chowing candy, it was fruit. But, it was too much. So, while I think following their cues are good, you also need to guide them in what and how much.
post #4 of 8
Holy cow thats alot of food!!!! I know when my 11 month old is done as he starts throwing everything on the floor.... so I immediately take stuff away. I never take food away if he is eating but he NEVER eats that much. For instance for dinner he might eat 4-6 bites of chicken and 3 bites of pasta salad and 1 apple slice and be done or even less than that. He still nurses 5-7 times a day but he is teeny tiny...
If you think he might get a stomach ache from eating too many beans than I might cut him off after a while otherwise he will let you know he is done. Your son sounds fine and healthy to me! I thought mine was a good eater compared to my first who barely ate food till 15 months ish....
post #5 of 8
With my DD, I always knew she was done when she started "finger painting" with the food. I thought she was a good eater, but your DS sounds like he is in another league from her! I would also change-it-up with the food I offerred I her if I felt like she was going overboard with a fave food.
A good rule-of-thumb for toddler serving sizes: offer 1-2 Tablespoons per year of age. So, since your DS is almost 1, offer him 1-2 T. of beans, then move on to 1-2T. of rice, 1-2 T. of veggie, etc. etc.

Don't worry... he'll probaby go through a stage soon where he won't eat anything! Then you'll long for these days when he ate everything in sight!
post #6 of 8
Are you offering to nurse right before feeding him solids? If you think he has had a lot of solids, you can always take a break, offer to nurse and then come back for more if he asks for it or still seems hungry.

I think you are doing a great job offering a variety of fruits, veggies, beans, grains, etc.
post #7 of 8
Offer small quantities but allow him to eat until he's done. He knows best when he's full BUT, I really like SeekingJoy's idea of nursing in the middle
post #8 of 8
i let her eat until she's done (throwing...wiping on the tray.....screaming....we're working on the sign for "all done.")

i do moderate some things. she could really eat a whole basket of strawberries but i'll limit fruits to a baby sized portion or a little more (maybe two fist sizes) because of the sugar and because of the way i know my stomach feels when i have too much. goopy stuff like egg salad she could also eat a ton but i cut her off because i don't want her overdoing the eggs and because egg salad is just kinda yucky.

but she can pack it in too. any type of cheesy pasta she can eat an adult sized portion and she's in the 25th percentile so kind of a "peanut."
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