Originally Posted by laohaire 
Wow, look at all the responses!
Yes, my mother is a piece of work. What can I say. I still love her.
I had never, ever, ever even thought about toe hair until that day. And I couldn't believe how childishly self-conscious I suddenly felt. Mothers have a lot of power, don't they?
So, for those who do shave your toe hair, were you taught to do so (by your mother or peers or ... I dunno, an article in a magazine?) or did you sort of take it upon yourself ("lalala I'm shaving my legs, lookie there, holey moley, there's a hair on my toe. Goodbye to you.")?
I do admit to shaving my nipple hairs from time to time. I don't obsess about it and I don't set out to do so, but if I'm shaving the pits and I glance down and see a hair on the nipple, I'll shave it off (I have about 3 potential hairs on each nipple, thankfully not on the sensitive tip or I wouldn't ever even touch it). Nobody ever said anything to me about nipple hair, I just noticed one and tried to shave it and it worked. Well, that's not totally true, my daughter has been known to instruct me to shave a hair while she was 3 or 4. But that wasn't my first time.
Back hair? Oh my. I don't even know if I have any hair on my back. How would I know? How could I reach it?
My mother also assured me during this visit that I was doomed to a mustache. Apparently she's growing one in her old age. This is new. Sigh.
So, yeah, as I mentioned there is no chance I'm shaving my toe hair. But it DID make me feel a little self-conscious, maybe I should put away my Tevas. But I think location matters too. My mom lives in Florida. Probably they make an art out of strappy sandals and all. Me, I live in Massachusetts, and we're slobs here*. Those of us who have gone to Southern California have reported major culture shock, and with only one exception (who moved to SoCal) returned to Massachusetts to revel in the slobbery. But anyway, it just made me start to wonder how many people are looking at my toe hair when I wear my Tevas. Probably nobody. I don't live in a classy town. lol.
*Don't worry, I know there are some perfectly coiffed folks from Massachusetts, particularly the Boston area. Heck, I went to Andover - though I have to admit, we practiced slobdom there (not much makeup and hair products to be seen, frequent trips to class in pajamas, etc.). I live on the other side of the state, though, and feel quite comfortable pronouncing us slobs despite the probability that someone will take offense.
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