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Help me keep DD happy during DS's swim lesson tonight!

post #1 of 4
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We took DD (2.5) to DS's (almost 6) swim lesson a few weeks ago and she FREAKED. OUT. I have never seen her act like that before or since -- she was hysterical and inconsolable, upset that she couldn't swim too. DH had to take her out to the parking lot, where she continued to completely lose it, and then it took her over 30 minutes at home to finally settle down. It was the one and only time she's been like that -- she has her difficult moments, but this one was a thousand times worse than any other.

Needless to say, we stopped taking her to DS's swim lessons -- instead, DH and I alternate taking him. But tonight DH has an appointment at that time, so I'll have to take both kids to the lesson and I'm worried! She's taking a great nap right now, and I'll have a snack, drink, book, and toy for her, but none of that will keep her happy if she gets into that state again, and this time DH won't be there to take her outside.

Any ideas for how to get through this? There aren't any other adults available to come with me. I guess there's always the chance that she just had a crazy off-day that time and it'll be fine tonight, but I might as well have some tricks up my sleeve from those of you who have BTDT.
post #2 of 4
Well I don't know how to say this politely, but look at it from her point of view.
You just can't explain to a two year old why she can't go swimming too. Her brother can swim, but she can't? Oh here is a toy and a snack, isn't that fun! Not! Is there a reason you can't let her swim too? Best of luck to you, and be prepared for a melt down. Heck at my age I would probably have a melt down, if I went to a pool and couldn't swim!
post #3 of 4
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Originally Posted by LVale View Post
Is there a reason you can't let her swim too?
It's a class for 5-year-olds at an indoor swim-lesson-only pool and she's 2 and isn't enrolled...

You've really never heard of kids having to attend their siblings' classes occasionally and not being allowed to participate? We do our best to work our schedule so that she doesn't have to go, but on this one night it's unavoidable.

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Oh here is a toy and a snack, isn't that fun! Not!
No need to sound mocking. I anticipated people saying things like, "Bring a snack and a toy" as suggestions, so I wanted to make it clear that I have stuff like that covered.
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Update: She did perfectly fine. I guess she was just having a bad day the other time.
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