Dear wonderful mommies and mommies to be,
I am writing to you to share my story and to get any wisdom and support that you can offer me. I am 37 weeks pregnant (naturally) with twins boy and girl. We feel like we won the lottery! I am a huge proponent of natural, vaginal and home births. My partner and I have persevered, against many odds it seemed, to find a knowledgeable and experienced midwife excited to help us deliver at home and a doctor who was willing to be a backup at the nearest hospital in Long Beach. We’ve been doing tandem prenatal care with the doctor and the midwife because the midwife lives 2 hours away from us. Last week, the doctor insisted on an ultrasound and discovered that baby A was at that time a footling breech and Baby B was vertex. She told us that she no longer feels comfortable with a homebirth and that she would like to do a scheduled cesarean at 38 or, at the latest, at 39 weeks. This was a huge shock and immediately felt wrong to me.
After the most intensive week of researching, speaking with midwives and doctors who value midwifery, assessing all the risks, collaborating with our midwife, prayer, meditation and contemplation, we are very clear that we still want to have a homebirth with our midwife. (By the way, I've been collecting all the research I could find so if anyone is in the same situation, I'd be happy to share it.) I am planning to pre-register at the nearest hospital just in case. Meanwhile, I’ve also been focusing on doing what I can to work with either turning Baby A vertex or at least tuck his little leg in so that he is just breech. I have not yet spoken with my doctor about my plans and am trying to find the right way to let her know how I feel and release her from any liability. I am a bit nervous about speaking with her because I do not want to feel any pressure from her. I am comfortable not having a backup doctor since if we need help during labor, we'll be heading right to the emergency room anyway and whoever is on call will take us.
In my heart, I feel very clearly that I am doing what is best for our babies by allowing a beautiful, sacred birth experience to unfold in our home. I feel that Spirit is guiding me on this journey and is certainly teaching me how to trust myself more and feel more empowered as a woman. I am practicing letting go of any fears and trusting that everything is unfolding perfectly.
I would love to hear from anyone who has been in my situation or who is knowledgeable about the topic. I appreciate your support!
I am writing to you to share my story and to get any wisdom and support that you can offer me. I am 37 weeks pregnant (naturally) with twins boy and girl. We feel like we won the lottery! I am a huge proponent of natural, vaginal and home births. My partner and I have persevered, against many odds it seemed, to find a knowledgeable and experienced midwife excited to help us deliver at home and a doctor who was willing to be a backup at the nearest hospital in Long Beach. We’ve been doing tandem prenatal care with the doctor and the midwife because the midwife lives 2 hours away from us. Last week, the doctor insisted on an ultrasound and discovered that baby A was at that time a footling breech and Baby B was vertex. She told us that she no longer feels comfortable with a homebirth and that she would like to do a scheduled cesarean at 38 or, at the latest, at 39 weeks. This was a huge shock and immediately felt wrong to me.
After the most intensive week of researching, speaking with midwives and doctors who value midwifery, assessing all the risks, collaborating with our midwife, prayer, meditation and contemplation, we are very clear that we still want to have a homebirth with our midwife. (By the way, I've been collecting all the research I could find so if anyone is in the same situation, I'd be happy to share it.) I am planning to pre-register at the nearest hospital just in case. Meanwhile, I’ve also been focusing on doing what I can to work with either turning Baby A vertex or at least tuck his little leg in so that he is just breech. I have not yet spoken with my doctor about my plans and am trying to find the right way to let her know how I feel and release her from any liability. I am a bit nervous about speaking with her because I do not want to feel any pressure from her. I am comfortable not having a backup doctor since if we need help during labor, we'll be heading right to the emergency room anyway and whoever is on call will take us.
In my heart, I feel very clearly that I am doing what is best for our babies by allowing a beautiful, sacred birth experience to unfold in our home. I feel that Spirit is guiding me on this journey and is certainly teaching me how to trust myself more and feel more empowered as a woman. I am practicing letting go of any fears and trusting that everything is unfolding perfectly.
I would love to hear from anyone who has been in my situation or who is knowledgeable about the topic. I appreciate your support!
















