DS was talking to his bio-dad on the phone last night. Quick recap- ex signed the passport papers for ds back in July because we thought dp's work was sending him to Australia this fall and ds and I were considering going with him.
So ex was talking to ds last night while ds was sitting on my lap so I heard this part of the conversation. DS said something about how he likes to travel and he goes to Florida. Ex said "yeah, I know. And you're going to Australia soon" (we haven't said anything to ds about Australia because we're not sure we're going. I think dp's work is sending him to China in December but ds and I aren't going to that one). DS responds with "Australia? No, I'm going to Japan. And Paris."
All that came from ex's side was.... silence. LOL! Then ex said "well, that's interesting" 
Is ds going to Japan or Paris? NO! He saw it on a Phineas and Ferb episode and has been obsessing over it 
After ds got off the phone with ex I called him to let him know how ds's eye dr appointment went yesterday (ex and all his family have a genetic eye disease that causes you to go blind by middle age. DS goes for yearly check-ups to look for signs of it in him. So far there's no signs at all!!!!). Anyway, so I called ex and told him. I figured he would ask about the Japan/Paris thing but he didn't say anything. I didn't want him thinking I was snooping in on his conversation (I obviously wasn't, ds just happened to want to sit on my lap at that time) so I didn't say anything to him about it. But I bet he's calling up his lawyer today claiming I'm running away with Owen
So ex was talking to ds last night while ds was sitting on my lap so I heard this part of the conversation. DS said something about how he likes to travel and he goes to Florida. Ex said "yeah, I know. And you're going to Australia soon" (we haven't said anything to ds about Australia because we're not sure we're going. I think dp's work is sending him to China in December but ds and I aren't going to that one). DS responds with "Australia? No, I'm going to Japan. And Paris."
All that came from ex's side was.... silence. LOL! Then ex said "well, that's interesting" Is ds going to Japan or Paris? NO! He saw it on a Phineas and Ferb episode and has been obsessing over it After ds got off the phone with ex I called him to let him know how ds's eye dr appointment went yesterday (ex and all his family have a genetic eye disease that causes you to go blind by middle age. DS goes for yearly check-ups to look for signs of it in him. So far there's no signs at all!!!!). Anyway, so I called ex and told him. I figured he would ask about the Japan/Paris thing but he didn't say anything. I didn't want him thinking I was snooping in on his conversation (I obviously wasn't, ds just happened to want to sit on my lap at that time) so I didn't say anything to him about it. But I bet he's calling up his lawyer today claiming I'm running away with Owen
I am in the process of writing ex and email explaining to him that it's completely inappropriate to talk to ds about these issues when there is no agreement between us. I will also explain to him that he will NOT be getting ds alone in October. Sooo.... we'll see what happens.
