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Originally Posted by kittywitty 
Ok, I just read up on this after finding out the name (I had it wrong to begin with). Looks like this is possibly genetic? Now I feel even more awful. If they would have caught this before I could have my other kids checked out more thoroughly for this. Maybe I have done something terrible having more kids that may also be affected if this is genetic? I feel like I've done something terrible and have somehow unknowingly screwed up my children putting them through unnecessary pain.
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hey hun, I couldn't remember how you spelled this and I wanted to Google....I knew you would post here, because I would have.

Please don't feel bad like that. You haven't done anything wrong by having your beautiful family, believe me I understand. I stress about "R" and "I" too, because I feel guilt that I am to blame about "M" and it's not a pleasant feeling. It feels horrible right now with all the still unknowns, and the sheer unexpectedness of it all. But D is a happy and capable little boy, with capable and more importantly loving and attentive parents.
I know you'll research the heck out of this and maybe you'll get some answers, maybe this doc is one of those who overshoot. I remember a certain er doc putting us through unnecessary stress last winter testing for childhood diabetes. I felt so mad at being made to worry like that.
It will all find it's way in time. We're here if you need anything, even to get away and talk.
