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Overscheduled!!! Need advice!

post #1 of 4
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I'm feeling pretty stoooooopid because last spring I was asked to be on the board of directors (specifically as chairman) of a non-profit I have been a part of for a while, I accepted, and at first it was fine, but in the last few weeks I suddenly don't have time!

I'm dropping the ball big time. It started with DS1 taking on some extra activities after school (at my suggestion, I didn't realize how time intensive they would be), then DD3 started going through some kind of high-drama phase which is turning everything into an ordeal. And my youngest is battling recurring ear infections, which means I am getting NO sleep lately and I'm trying to juggle all the pede visits and follow-ups.

It doesn't help that DH and I are having some financial trouble to boot, so there's just the stress of that which is formidable. I keep forgetting about phone calls I am supposed to be making, following up on letters and meetings and, oh I am just so freaking tired!

Anyway, I don't know what to do. I kind of want to just quit, but I know that won't solve everything. I'll just end up with a lot of people angry at me, which seems even more stressful. They are already frustrated with me for doing a crappy job. I'm delegating what I can. I'm sure if I had more sleep I could think straight about this.

Advise or commiseration welcome!!!
post #2 of 4
Could you speak to the board and explain that things are difficult for you right now and you'd like to take a leave of absence?

If they're not keen on that I'd just quit. If they're already frustrated at you they may be glad to have someone else fill the role.
post #3 of 4
Do you have a council or board of directors? You need to let other managers know you are time crunched and delegate some of the work out.
post #4 of 4
If you want to resign from the BoD, then resign with a sincere apology and with confidence. Your family is more important! Your family is with you for a season---non-profits, volunteer work, work, etc... they will always be around.
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