I am new to being a stepparent. DH and I have been together over a year, at first the ex was his friend and she came over all the time and after we got married I asked him not to let her come over when I wasnt here, so he did. She got mad and stopped coming over. She is with another guy now and is pregnant too. I am pregnant with twins. She has a history of drug abuse, she just got out of jail when I met dh last year, she is on drug court duty for 2 years now. She has always been nice to me, me to her but I just dont feel comfortable being around her. Last year, after dh and I first started dating, she had dss bday party at her house and I went with dh. (we werent married at the time) dh ignored me pretty much most of the time, hung out with her, and I felt so left out, I left the party in tears. I told him never again. Well......its that time again. Dss party is tomorrow. We are invited. I do not want to go. We have already celebrated his bday here at our house, why do we have to go to his bday over there? I am hugely preggo with twins and do not feel like being around his ex wife and all her family and friends. Is this so bad?? Dh is fine with not going, but I feel so guilty about it, like I am being a biatch or something......
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9/17/10 at 2:20pm