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Talk me off the ledge...mom gave 7.5-month-old pasta...

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My parents fed my 7 month old pasta and veggies with some Earth's Best fruits. They said he ate "about six or seven bites." He is a huge baby -- already 21 pounds -- but still!

I'm so paranoid about food allergies in his developing gut and am now freaked out he'll develop a gluten intolerance / wheat allergy / some other allergy.
post #2 of 9
"They" say that the best window to introduce gluten is 7-9 months I believe. I would be totally PO'ed but does you child have food allergies? Does your older child? If not, I would take a deep breath, hope for the best and better explain next time.

Sorry, Mama!
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Thanks -- I hope "they" are right. Thanks for letting me vent!!
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Originally Posted by GutInstinct View Post

I'm so paranoid about food allergies in his developing gut and am now freaked out he'll develop a gluten intolerance / wheat allergy / some other allergy.
I do empathize, because that would annoy me... but why are you so paranoid about that? Does your child have food allergies? Is there some reason you think he might get them? Unless he has food allergies, I'm not sure why your parents would have any clue that was a bad idea; there's no reason a baby eating solids "shouldn't" have those foods. Highly allergenic foods like tree nuts/peanuts, shellfish, etc are sometimes recommended to avoid for a year or two, but gluten isn't one of those highly allergenic foods. (Although I agree, it's definitely not the best thing for a developing gut.)
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I do empathize, because that would annoy me... but why are you so paranoid about that? Does your child have food allergies? Is there some reason you think he might get them? Unless he has food allergies, I'm not sure why your parents would have any clue that was a bad idea; there's no reason a baby eating solids "shouldn't" have those foods. Highly allergenic foods like tree nuts/peanuts, shellfish, etc are sometimes recommended to avoid for a year or two, but gluten isn't one of those highly allergenic foods. (Although I agree, it's definitely not the best thing for a developing gut.)
: - My son went the puree route, but my daughter didn't have "baby food" puree consistency (had NO interest in purees, basically rejected them) foods and was feeding herself bits of food the same as we ate (minus major allergens) at 7 months old.

Now, if they had given him Cheetos and a Pepsi, I could see being really upset, but pasta and veggies sounds pretty darned good to me. I'm sorry they went beyond what you had provided, but in the scheme of things that was a pretty good thing to give him. I guess if you really don't want him having anything else, you'll have to be more specific in that you only want him to get what you give them for him.
post #6 of 9
Breathe mama...your baby is plenty old enough for a couple bites of solid food, and now is the time to introduce gluten-containing products. I'm not quite sure it makes a bit of difference anyhow... I have Celiac, and my youngest didn't get gluten until she was almost a year old simply because I don't cook with gluten. Turns out SHE also has a gluten intolerance. Waiting until a year to introduce gluten didn't make a difference. She also has multiple food allergies and FPIES, yet we didn't introduce allergens to her at all (besides a little dairy and some egg in french toast) until she was a year old--yet she's allergic to gluten, dairy, egg, nuts, and shellfish.

It sounds like they went above and beyond to give your child a very healthy organic meal when you weren't there to feed him. He's at the right age where introducing gluten can be a good thing. Please don't think I'm dissing you...I'm not...but I think in this case, you might just sit back, take a breath, and let it go. Check him for reactions, but the vast majority of children are NOT gluten intolerant (I think there is a disproportionate number of allergic kids on MDC, but truth be told, most of these allergies are likely not true allergies or Celiac. We happen to have confirmed IgE mediated food allergies and Celiac in the family, which increases our risk obviously. But the majority of children are fine with foods.) If you don't have a family history of Celiac, gluten intolerance, or food allergies, I think you can safely introduce solids since he's in the later part of the first year (if you wait too long, the risk of developing allergies can be greater...)
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I wouldn't have freaked out, TBH. They were doing what they thought was best for your LO. Jarred food is pretty icky, IMO, so I would have preferred what your parents fed the baby than that, hands-down. I get the worry since solids are still new and allergies are a concern, but at 7.5 months, I don't believe there is much risk of ruining the gut, so to speak.
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"They" say that the best window to introduce gluten is 7-9 months I believe. I would be totally PO'ed but does you child have food allergies? Does your older child? If not, I would take a deep breath, hope for the best and better explain next time.

Sorry, Mama!
"They" have mis-understood it. The advice is to introduce gluten:

1. under the protection of breastfeeding
2. as slowly as possible
3. as late as possible (definitely after 6 months)

But the first is the most important. Which is where the 7-9 months come from. If mum is going to stop breastfeeding by 12 months, introducing gluten around 7-9 months makes sense.

As a one-off, your baby will probably be fine. Still, I would be livid if my parents had done that, and leaving DD with them would be on condition it never happened again!
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Originally Posted by changingseasons View Post
I do empathize, because that would annoy me... but why are you so paranoid about that? Does your child have food allergies? Is there some reason you think he might get them? Unless he has food allergies, I'm not sure why your parents would have any clue that was a bad idea; there's no reason a baby eating solids "shouldn't" have those foods. Highly allergenic foods like tree nuts/peanuts, shellfish, etc are sometimes recommended to avoid for a year or two, but gluten isn't one of those highly allergenic foods. (Although I agree, it's definitely not the best thing for a developing gut.)
And, fwiw, they changed that recommendation because it didn't seem to do any good, and there was research that it only exacerbated existing intolerances and allergies.

I'm in the "no big deal" camp. Your baby is at a perfectly fine time to introduce those foods.
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